Don't be someone's second choice

ItsYesMaam2u · 2020-05-10T09:42:16+00:00

Don't be a pick-me, be a pick-her.

myousername · 2020-05-10T16:08:49+00:00

There probably wasn't even another woman. Most of the time, guys just play this move as part of a "dreadgame" strategy.

The objective is to increase their own perceived value ("I'm so great, other women want me") and to try and inflict a scarcity mindset onto his target to manipulate her into acting desperately.

So after this devastating blow, he's probably sitting there alone with nothing but his right hand keeping him company.

KitKat1705 · 2020-05-10T11:27:11+00:00

Damn right! This comeback is inspirational.

Present_Pumpkin · 2020-05-10T11:44:19+00:00

They do this shit to play games. Still enough reason to dump him.

ilike2snap · 2020-05-10T14:07:31+00:00

What was he expecting by telling her this? I don’t any woman who would be allured by hearing a guy is interested in other women.

nosynobody · 2020-05-10T13:46:14+00:00

Boss

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2020-05-10T19:05:04+00:00

Hilarious how this turned around on him 😂

flvctvatnecmergitvr_ · 2020-05-10T16:59:04+00:00

Yes. YESSSSS

2020-05-10T19:13:45+00:00

I'm gonna be like "I'm already me and it's not on me to help you figure out what you'll like about me, I'm just me."

fairywakes · 2020-05-11T10:38:32+00:00

Oh my GOD please tell us what he said afterwards!

2020-05-10T19:12:40+00:00

Queen!

Title	Don't be someone's second choice
Author	el-magnoona
Upvotes	246
Comments	12
Date	May 9, 2020 7:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ggluxk/dont_be_someones_second_choice/
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