So some of you may have saw my txt between the guy I will be going on a date with tonight that I posted last night.

This morning he called me to share that he has made reservations at a restaurant and signed us up for rock climbing. Perfect - except I’m afraid of heights and rock climbing isn’t my thing.. initial pick mesiha in me thought great if I tell him maybe he will get upset and not want to hang out - then was like no fuck that.

( isn’t it something how we are so ingrained to think that way...)

Anyway I told him appreciate him putting this together but I do not want to go rock climbing. His response without hesitation “ no problem “ dinner it is! So easy , understanding no pressuring to make sure. I was taken back by that.. there is no way I’m considering him yet to be HV ( if you look at my post history you will see made that mistake too quick last time )

The point I’m making is that it’s okay to speak up and tell them if we don’t want to do something.. their response to it - especially so early on can tell you something to look out for ( red flag or possible HV) For this case I’m impressed by his response and looking forward to tonight.