The myth of "degrading" sex

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-06-22T22:38:01+00:00

Removed for low effort. Please include more specific discussion questions.

kwalden2 · 2020-06-22T22:25:01+00:00

Pretty sure choking someone and calling them a whore whilst you're inside them is objectively degrading. These things are common enough to be a part of the discussion.

Sure, there may be those outliers who would be compatible with this behavior. In the end, you can use language about "incompatibility" however you want, but some people can feel degraded during some sex acts. This is a bigger issue than "we like a different frequency" or "we both prefer to be on top." You are doing no one a service by minimizing the negative effects of certain sex acts in certain situations. If a woman is complaining that sex acts make her feel degraded, smart bet is to not do those acts with her. Period. It's not that hard.

wtknight · 2020-06-22T22:16:44+00:00

Sure. I've always been in category 2 rather than category 3 because I've never thought sexual tastes was important enough to break up over when there is already an emotional bond there. Some people take sex way too seriously in my opinion. I stopped taking it so seriously once I lost my virginity and realized that love is more important.

SaBahRub · 2020-06-22T22:27:06+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=c9mp6r_RNyE

“We love anal....because you hate it”

Cmon now, the whole point of this saltiness about chad is that he does shit to women that sucks for them and they let him. The more pain and suffering a person goes through, the better it is because it means they will put you above their own wants, needs, and well being

c_dolly · 2020-06-22T22:33:15+00:00

If a sex act is going to cause pain and discomfort, emotional distress, or involves insults, it's objectively degrading.

Being into said degrading act while your partner isn't is where the sexual incompatibility is.

My experience aligns with 1) and 2). I've never broken up with someone due to sexual incompatibility.

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Title	The myth of "degrading" sex
Author	CommanderOfTheDeath
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	June 22, 2020 10:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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