Is a guy being a 'virgin' a big turn off for women?

Psychological_Radish · 2020-06-25T14:08:46+00:00

Why do you have to tell her this information? For God's sake man, keep some things to yourself. Do what every guy does and lie your ass off about your sexual experience. The general rule of thumb is to take a guy's stated n-count and divide it by three to get the real number.

IXseed · 2020-06-25T14:59:16+00:00

Why would you tell her you're a virgin anyways? Now at your age it may be looked at some way but when you get older the more "weird" it's gonna seem. Don't give a shit about it. And before you think "But when I have sex she'll know" lemme tell you sumthing. A majority of men SUCK at sex so much that women are used to dudes not knowing what they're doing.

Hoopy223 · 2020-06-25T14:23:13+00:00

You are 19. Most guys your age are virgins. Don’t worry about it.

thrwy75479 · 2020-06-25T17:35:34+00:00

Will me being a virgin make her pussy dry?

You won't even see her pussy if you tell her you're a virgin.

If they don't ask, don't tell. If they ask, A&A:

"Yea, it's my first time today."

ppvknifefight · 2020-06-25T17:50:37+00:00

Duh, yes. Women like to be led and dominated in the bedroom by someone who's experienced. A virgin needs to be led and dominated in the bedroom by someone who's experienced. Conflict of interests.

But here's the funny thing. Women wont know if you don't tell them, they'll just think that you're terrible in bed. So you're worried about nothing -- educate yourself to the best of your ability, go out and fuck up sex with a couple women and get over it. You'll be fine.

FudgingEgo · 2020-06-25T17:14:35+00:00

Fake it till you make it and if they ask for numbers just say you don't kiss and tell.

drevenx13 · 2020-06-25T19:26:34+00:00

I've seen girls who were absolutely turned on by taking a guy's virginity.

P.S. these girls were porn actresses.

a.k.a sluts

Raw_American_Steel · 2020-06-25T19:23:05+00:00

This should be a rule on the sidebar. Never tell a girl under any circumstances that you are a virgin. You confirm that you are a low-value man and no women ever wanted to have sex with you. Fake it till you make it so you won't have to lie about it next time. Also, stop hanging out with girls who know you are a virgin, they think you are a loser and your chances with them are extremely low. Find other prospects.

sofferenzah · 2020-06-25T21:02:13+00:00

Iron rule of Tomassi. Never ever disclose your sexual history, you have nothing to gain and everything to lose. Keep that to yourself and simply play it off as something you don't tell people when asked.

slacker45 · 2020-06-25T14:41:57+00:00

Don't mention it and if you can lie. It weirds girls out. Edit: lie only if outright asked

Flaky_Lakey · 2020-06-25T15:30:26+00:00

It really doesn't matter. It's unlikely that you will be in a situation where you will be confronted with this question before you lose your virginity.

If it does end up being the topic of conversation, just tell them you keep your sex life private. Joke around with it too, tell them if they want your credit card details too, or something along the lines of that.

2020-06-25T14:17:01+00:00

Don't ask, don't tell.

Sad_Sleeper · 2020-06-25T20:54:42+00:00

If you have your shit together and you are confident, she will never know that you are a virgin!

FirstName_LastName4 · 2020-06-25T14:10:57+00:00

Yes, because it means you are a low value man since no other girl has ever fucked you.

Woman want the alpha male, the guy all girls want, the guy who fucks, so id say is better not to tell them you are a virgin

madfrombrad · 2020-06-26T00:01:54+00:00

when i lost mine I told the slut it was 11 body count

beatboxer · 2020-06-26T01:48:43+00:00

If she asks how many women you slept with. Say: ''what, today?".

juliusstreicher · 2020-06-26T07:32:21+00:00

She will actually have a different opinion of you, that's for sure. My first lay was when I was 33. I had been a fat slob till then. When I hit 30 I started losing fat, taking aerobics (this was in the 80s).

At any rate, I connected with a killer, killer babe, who was mega hot. Unfortunately, she was also BPD, huge whore. At any rate, she found out, and since she was such a hosebag, realized that I wasn't in her league, hookup wise. I was mega Blue Pill, thrown into the bargain, so, after we did it, things didn't go well. But, after reflection, I realized that my landing could have been softer if I hadn't let on that I was a virgin.

If anybody asks, just say no. If a friend asks, just say...no. Get a bored look on your face if they ask 'with whom', as if they are retards, and say "they won't fuck you, so, what difference does it make?" If the chicks ask with whom, or how many, just say "What, are you writing a book?"

Title	Is a guy being a 'virgin' a big turn off for women?
Author	vanquishtosurvive
Upvotes	11
Comments	33
Date	June 25, 2020 1:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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