Important reminder to not personalize rejection and poor treatment when dating. It’s them not you.

eng2fly · 2020-06-29T13:25:04+00:00

That really helped me a lot when I got back into the dating world. Reminding myself that the guy with the beer belly and crocs doesn’t get to tell me I’m a four at most.

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-06-29T15:27:38+00:00

Personalizing rejection is pickme energy.

Pasdepromesses · 2020-06-29T18:45:42+00:00

Also: don’t take advice from someone you wouldn’t trade places with.

bey124 · 2020-06-29T14:01:01+00:00

This is great! Thank you for sharing

degnan1214 · 2020-06-29T18:49:20+00:00

Another way to put it is, "Consider the source." Excellent advice.

moon_prophet · 2020-06-29T20:11:26+00:00

In addition a similar quote I’ve used for years...

Never value the opinion of someone you don’t respect.

Title	Important reminder to not personalize rejection and poor treatment when dating. It’s them not you.
Author	eng2fly
Upvotes	1061
Comments	12
Date	June 29, 2020 12:03 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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