Relationship Red Flag #647432737: Boredom

ScrubJay9 · 2020-07-10T22:19:06+00:00

Ugh yes, also - I've had two men who I met on Tinder and went on a few dates with ask to come to my house post-Covid with no mention of Covid or how us hanging out in my house could put us and our families at higher risk. I had never allowed these men in my house pre-Covid, either, so there was no precedent. Seriously? No. Blocked with no response.

thighsmatch · 2020-07-11T04:38:17+00:00

On a related note, even if he’s genuinely pursuing me, if a guy gets bored easily or is always bored, that is a red flag to me too. Quarantine is a bit different but even then, why doesn’t he have hobbies, friends, family, intellectual or fitness pursuits or a Netflix subscription? In my experience a guy being constantly bored/restless can also be connected to thrill -seeking behavior that can correlate with cheating behavior and or untreated mental illness.

CassieGreen85 · 2020-07-11T04:25:14+00:00

Not being able to go out because of COVID so they text rando casual dates from the past: Boredom

veruscka · 2020-07-11T03:15:21+00:00

This literally describes a guy I wasted a whole month on. All he ever had was “Hey how are you, want to get a drink somewhere?” It just got so pointless so quickly. I already have friends I can grab a drink with. It was like the boredom he felt in his own life just seeped out of him and into my life lol. This dude still randomly calls me sometimes at 2 or 3 am and will leave a slurred message asking me to call him back 🤦🏻‍♀️

cherrypollen · 2020-07-10T21:33:11+00:00

Very few things annoy me more than this. Men think they’re entitled to your attention or that you should entertain them whenever they feel like it. It’s like don’t you have a job or task you need to attend to? Don’t text me just for the sake of texting hoping I’m going to entertain you because you don’t know how to be alone with your thoughts for 10 minutes.

outgoingshygal · 2020-07-10T19:01:28+00:00

I needed this 😞 thanks for posting

2020-07-11T01:46:10+00:00

Thanks

Title	Relationship Red Flag #647432737: Boredom
Author	artemisdonna
Upvotes	621
Comments	9
Date	July 10, 2020 6:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/houvcy/relationship_red_flag_647432737_boredom/
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