Books on how to improve your charisma and deal with people?

Tousen71 · 2020-07-09T15:41:50+00:00

Don't fall into the trap that everyone on here falls into thinking that they can learn charisma and game solely through reading.

You need to talk to everyone you meet, approach girls and go on dates. Everyone on here just sits around and mental masturbates to charisma and game books without actually getting any practical experience.

UEMcGill · 2020-07-09T15:03:44+00:00

Here's a few that help deal with people that I'd recommend:

"When I Say No I Feel Guilty", it's a simple read and puts in to perspective how people manipulate you and get you to judge your own actions.
"Never Split the Difference", probably one of the best books on negotiating. Think negotiations are just about used cars? You negotiate all the time.
"The Ultimate Sales Machine" even if you're not in sales pick up this one or another, as the base of sales is really about getting people to buy into you. Doesn't have to be this one, but try one from the amazon best seller list. Next time you're running a set on a chick, ask yourself if you're in sales.

Don_Draper27 · 2020-07-09T13:33:11+00:00

The Charisma Myth - for Charisma

48 Laws of Power - For “Dealing” with people

TXJohn83 · 2020-07-09T18:28:18+00:00

There is no substitute for experience, and only one way to get it. Stop jerking off to reading material, and go practice in the real world.

seducter · 2020-07-09T14:03:17+00:00

Way of the wolf by Jordan Belfort has some stuff on charisma. Hes a pretty charismatic guy.

WolfofAllStreetz · 2020-07-09T17:18:37+00:00

How to Win Friends is a good one.

iphone5000 · 2020-07-09T18:09:32+00:00

Read the book Influence, best book i've ever read on persuasion

kevin_le0 · 2020-07-09T22:06:06+00:00

What every BODY is saying by Joe Navarro, great book on body language.

PreEntertain · 2020-07-09T17:27:30+00:00

Practise makes perfect.

IBETITALL420 · 2020-07-09T15:01:27+00:00

not a book but look up Machiavellianism/Manipulation on the internet

jhx264 · 2020-07-10T00:46:49+00:00

The prince

AJ_KG_JG · 2020-07-10T02:01:15+00:00

Not a recommendation for a particular book, but for your outlook when reading this stuff: Recognize that a lot of this stuff is true some of the time, but not all of the time. Wisdom and discernment come with knowing when to apply what. Experience and reflection are needed for this.

celincelin · 2020-07-10T06:31:32+00:00

You want to improve your reading or talking, mate?

Title	Books on how to improve your charisma and deal with people?
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