How to show praise over progress

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July 6, 2020

My wife has been showing more interest in dressing up, making more sexual comments towards me, and has been reacting warmly to my advances. She has been wearing things I’ve asked her to wear (that she didn’t want to wear years ago) and has been talking about getting in shape after the baby is born.

I have been so pleased with her level of enthusiasm. She even recently spent money to buy some beauty products and has been applying them regularly.

When she does these things, I can tell she is seeking approval by facing me, angling her body towards me or by stating her plans to improve her body in a questionative way, and I always respond with, “cool, that’s great babe, I’m proud of you taking care of yourself, you are lookin fine, that’s my pretty girl” etc etc.

Today she broke down and said “I don’t want to wear (random item)” and “I try so hard to look beautiful for you” and “I don’t want to look like a (common term for a HB 10)”

Am I not showing enough attention, since that’s her main currency that she wants? Am I not praising her enough? How do I keep encouraging her as she makes these commitments to be an attractive female? What’s the deal here? She said “your standards are just so high.”

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Title How to show praise over progress
Author LabelOtherSide
Upvotes 19
Comments 18
Date 06 July 2020 06:34 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why don't you tell us a little more about your wife?

[–]anferkneez16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bro she is preggo, right now she is trying to keep you around because she feels unattractive. Wait till the baby is born she won’t even know you exist. That’s when your A game needs to be on point.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Am I not showing enough attention, since that’s her main currency that she wants?

This alone tells me you haven’t absorbed much sidebar. A quality man doesn’t obsess about giving his wife enough attention.... she obsesses about giving him enough.

Secondly, words are cheap, so if she’s talking about how she’s going to get in shape “after,” why would you praise her for something she hasn’t done? I’m curious, has she put on a lot of weight besides the baby’s weight? I mean, are her thighs and butt getting really big?

[–]tightsleeves8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

You should be treating her the way the guy in her office, that wants to f*ck her, would treat her.

He wouldn't say "I am so proud of your achievements and how you are starting to look better"

He would say "Damn you look good in that dress... If i was your husband it would be hard to control myself"

Act more like the guy that wants to get into the pants and less like the guy that feels like the pants are 'default' his

[–]ice_walkerHead Negotiator2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Even better, instead of being the guy who is trying to fuck her, be the guy she and other women are trying to fuck. Then you don’t have to worry about phrasing your compliments the right way. That’s a fundamental difference right there, be ing the guy she’s trying to fuck versus being the guy trying to fuck her. Before you understand the difference your progress will be limited.

[–]part_wolf20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy

“your standards are just so high.”

There's the shit test. Laugh and smile. "Honey, at least I have good taste in women."

[–]business---travel6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Honey, at least I have good taste in women."

Excellent response! OP, take notes...

[–]wkndatbernardus4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Words, words, words."

  • Hamlet and also you to your wife

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret10 points11 points  (6 children) | Copy

My womans ultimate desire is to be picked by a man of high value over and over.

Try using your cock for praise instead of words. Faggots talk. Men do.

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando12 points13 points  (5 children) | Copy

He'll probably write "you look lovely, honey" on his cock with a Sharpie.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret14 points15 points  (4 children) | Copy

Impressive if flaccid.

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando16 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy

Unless he writes it when he's hard, then it'll be "yloleyhey"

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

You sir, are a good thinker

[–]BarracudaRP1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy


If OP ever gets flared, I know what my vote will be

[–]MonkModeActive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]johnmic071 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's never going to be a point when you'll stop getting shit tests. But if you pass the tests you'll continue to make progress.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus. Have you ever heard of giving her some comfort ?

How about just plain old trying to seduce her panties off of her when she’s dressed up ?

Read the fucking sidebar and try to absorb it instead of just skimming through it

[–]fishtaint1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Keep doing what you are doing and throw her some of that good good lovin'

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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