Love yourself first

willowgrowingroots · 2020-07-06T22:34:58+00:00

Quick reminder: this does not apply to abuse victims. Power to yall💖

raddishBunBun · 2020-07-07T04:16:18+00:00

I don't feel as good about this message. I've noticed some saggy scrotes from my old work place post on here disguised as women asking/posting advice. This was actually the reason for my very first post as someone was asking questions about if their "friends" doing very specific things and if that made them HVMs in FDS' eyes. After the post, I let it all marinate to make for damn sure he saw it. I texting my so called amigo and surprise surprise, I was blocked (hahaha! you fell right into my very much planned trap T.O.M. you scuzzbag, you can hide your ip address but not your shitty manipulative personality dude).

This message sounds exactly like the type of bullshit they say to their employees. "Stop making yourself the victim and take responsibility for your actions". What most people in that group don't even realize is that this company purposely scopes for abuse victims AND abusers to employ (imagine the work dynamics). Why? Because they are more likely to wear themselves completely to the bone (or wear others down) for almost nothing in pay but the glory of praises from their abusers and a promotion from victim to bully.

No one should ever blame themselves for being in an abusive situation. Recognizing mistakes is fine, but to ask the victim to start blaming themselves is not okay at all.

No one ruins themselves by realizing they made a mistake. THAT is an IMPROVEMENT and an important milestone in anyone's life!

meecy166 · 2020-07-07T03:03:27+00:00

This applies to me thank you for this, I felt bad for him and neglected myself and my feelings just because I felt bad for someone that added nothing to my life.

willowgrowingroots · 2020-07-07T10:29:50+00:00

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whiterabbit818 · 2020-07-06T23:10:03+00:00

Same girl.

Title	Love yourself first
Author	missmelissa187
Upvotes	606
Comments	13
Date	July 6, 2020 10:33 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hmi5r7/love_yourself_first/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/love-yourself-first.714319 https://theredarchive.com/post/714319

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