I can't get plates to spin. Either it's 3 dates no sex...next, ONS...ghost, 2-3 sex session then "the talk"/sex withholding manipulation. In all of these scenarios, I walk away and the girls never reach out. Talking 15-20 girls here. "2-3 session girls" tell me the sex is really good, I have great stamina and make them cum.

It's starting to challenge my confidence and becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Walking away is no problem but what really insults me is that these chics see it as an option to offer me orbit or nothing and therefore force my hand to leave. I feel powerless in utilizing the most powerful tool anyone has in "walking away".

I understand abundance but with a higher N sample the truth of the matter is "I am not good enough" for some reason and I can't figure out why. My SMV might be a little lower with covid but the fact I can bed them the first date then get a consistent slow fade makes me think it's something else.

I'm starting to get burnt out tbh.

Either I need to increase the incoming pussy but I'm having a hard time doing so and the repetitive dating process is really draining (Can't insta fuck most of them)

Or

I need to work on retention and my failing at it is really sapping my confidence and burning me out. To the point where I'm like "why put the work in for 2 lays? don't both..."

Anyone experience similar things? Any realizations?