Find yourself before you look for someone else

lnbrrnt · 2020-07-30T14:25:24+00:00

Always look to become your high value self, queens

SadVibesGirl · 2020-07-30T19:13:31+00:00

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lubluv · 2020-07-30T15:14:10+00:00

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

frodosdojo · 2020-07-30T19:07:50+00:00

This is so important because women often put their needs aside within a relationship. If you learn what your own needs, desires and goals are and focus on the importance of just being you, you are less likely to fall into that trap.

Pasdepromesses · 2020-07-30T20:52:54+00:00

This is so true. The moment you notice that you're not worrying about people liking you, but you actually liking them, is such an important realization.

sagenjax · 2020-07-30T17:53:56+00:00

That reminds me of this wonderful TED talk, The Person You Really Need to Marry ♥️ https://youtu.be/P3fIZuW9P_M

SayNad · 2020-07-30T23:38:11+00:00

And when the pickmes be screaming:

"OMG IF YOU KEEP DOING ALL THAT YOUR EGGS WILL DRIED UP! NO MEN WANTS TO MARRY AN OLD WOMEN! HOW ARE YOU GOING TO GET PREGNANT THIS WAY?? YOU WILL NO LONGER HAVE VALUE TO MEN!!!! YOU WILL DIE ALONE AND NOBODY IS GOING TO TAKE CARE OF YOU!!!"

Just remember that no women ever get abused and killed from being forever single, but many get abused for years and murdered by an abusive husband. Go be happy with your cats and your small cottage - you will have a fulfilling life and die a happy lady. And ffs we live in a modern society, just check yourself into a nursing home or something. Or pay for a professional caretaker.

sagenjax · 2020-07-30T19:14:37+00:00

Absolutely, my pleasure! It’s fascinating how we can re-read or re-watch things in different parts of our journey and gather even more meaning. Life is intriguing for sure..

onthechainwaxx · 2020-07-31T00:53:42+00:00

I wish I’d understood this so much sooner. But I’m here now.

ztherobot · 2020-07-30T16:31:11+00:00

If you don't know your own values and live by them, how can you ever hope to find a person who shares them?

Kadesa12 · 2020-07-30T16:54:16+00:00

Preach it girl!

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