This man wrote "women are from Venus men are from Mars" he makes so much sense. Goes into detail how a lot of men have too much estrogen, that's why their bellies are huge, they lack testosterone. They lack ambition, drive, the need to serve. Women, we also have imbalances, too much testosterone, so we provide for ourselves and do not rely on others at all. He explains how hormonal imbalances can hurt relationships. I did not read his book, but I am listening to him on YouTube and podcasts. He explains it so well! Literally all we desire are things that make our estrogen rise. Like romance, being catered to, having a man listen to us, feeling safe enough to be vulnerable. A man who rises our estrogen, will also feel himself a rise in testosterone. He'll feel like a hero, he feels needed, he feels nurtured. So both parties benefit.