So I've started dating again for the first time since splitting from my ex early last year in spring.

I've since been taking in everything FDS, worked on my career and self, friendships, changed my pick me ways, stopped allowing men to take me fi eediyat and everything. But, that being said, it's been so long since I dated and I think it's easy to spot red flags and signs when the situation in question isn't about you.

So I'd like some help/advice. I've taken the approach of talking to different men and not committing to any of them until I've properly vetted them, am 100% sure of his intentions ect. So I'm talking to 4 guys - i think they all are showing red flags but are there any red flags I'm not seeing so I can confirm i should cut them off if needs be:

Guy #1 - been talking for a week, asked me on a date a yesterday. The date is 100% planned, i have a place, location, time and activity. I let him plan the date. It's going for coffee and then a walk (i think this might be low effort??). Asks me several questions, hold conversation well. Hasn't spoken to me as much now the date is planned, actually left my message yesterday unanswered but opened on WhatsApp and i haven't spoken to him today.

Guy #2 - been talking also for about a week. Said he wants to take me mini golf and on a separate occasion for a picnic and other dates, but doesn't know when because of lockdown. Keeps randomly sending me memes, most if not all the conversation has been him asking/playing 21 questions and would you rather. No sexual or flirtatious questions though. Said he's never been in a relationship because he has bad luck and no dates have led to a relationship.

Guy #3 - been talking for a few days now. Asked me on a date for about a week and a half away from today as he gets time off work from the 18th. Said he'll take me bowling but won't confirm the exact date nor time until the day gets closer. (is he future faking me or ??) update, he says we need a backup in case bowling doesn't happen, asked me what do i suggest we do just in case. (wants me to plan something). Said I'm the only person who actually responds to his messages, dating has been crap for him for a year now but now i talk to him it's not. (this is odd since I've not spoken to him for long, almost like he's trying to flatter me?)

Guy #4 - been talking for about a week online, hasn't asked for my number nor a date. Texts back really quick, asks questions, is super funny but otherwise seemingly not interested maybe?

I don't know, any help is really appreciated. Thanks!