Friendly reminder

broken_glass_castle · 2019-11-06T01:05:16+00:00

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AstridRavenGrae · 2019-11-06T02:33:37+00:00

I was a chatting to a guy I met through friends the other day and he wanted to ask me a ‘hard question’ - how and who I vote for in elections - before we worked out if we wanted to go on a date and get to know each other more. No big deal, I’m open with my politics and we matched in views so it was totally fine.

Next came my ‘big question’ - for him to tell me about his porn habits or what type of porn he enjoys 👌🏻

I just get the question done and out of the way these days, gauging both their answer itself, and what degree of honesty is in that answer to influence if I want to spend time with them.

wearekinetic · 2019-11-06T17:46:32+00:00

A boyfriend I had for a short time in college essentially confessed to previously having an addiction to it. He was only 24 and already having ED problems. When he was able to get it up, it was the worst sex of my life. He bragged about his skills, but it literally felt like he was acting out a porno and had never been with a real woman long enough to learn what to do.

2019-11-06T01:31:13+00:00

Guys who don’t watch porn exist, i am happy to know one. It’s rare though :(

queenofthequeefs · 2019-11-06T02:49:51+00:00

I watch porn occasionally, can someone educate me why this is wrong if it’s not excess use?

randomgirlimok · 2019-11-06T01:44:05+00:00

I left my ex-husband bc of this. I have no idea how he is getting it up for his new GF.

JanTheBrown · 2019-11-06T08:53:03+00:00

Wait, but are there guys who don't watch it.. like at all? I admit I watch porn occasionally, but only when erotica can't get me off. I've never had much luck with guys, so masturbation is my only option for sexual release.

I feel like the guys who don't watch porn may be on the more religious/conservative side, which also comes with its own host of problems (since I'm staunchly anti-religion).

Blackishcat27 · 2019-11-06T07:47:27+00:00

I would up vote this a million times if I could

Title	Friendly reminder
Author	fawn_1818
Upvotes	70
Comments	16
Date	November 5, 2019 11:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ds7wdb/friendly_reminder/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/friendly-reminder.724207 https://theredarchive.com/post/724207

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