The most successful people in life are the ones who have initiative. The ones who do things first. The ones to speak up first. The ones to take action first. This is true whether it's in finance, competition, hobbies, or dating. Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk, Bill Gates, J.K. Rowling, Kim Kardashian, Oprah Winfrey, Conor McGregor, Jon Jones: what do they all have in common? Initiative. This is why most women would die virgins if they were men. They'd be laying on their death bed wondering why no person ever picked them out of the crowd, because they spent their entire life feeling entitled to being loved for who they are, instead of taking the initiative to be first.