Is it a dealbreaker for you if a man is too messy/nasty?

OutOfOranges · 2020-11-28T22:17:16+00:00

No in group questions

tiposk · 2020-11-28T21:17:31+00:00

I remember meeting an incredibly cute guy on a bus. Our conversation was going great and it looked like he might have been interested in meeting again. At some point, he started laughing with his mouth wide open. He's teeth were getting green around the gum and it was disgusting. I'd rather kiss/sleep with someone physically unattractive than someone hot who's dirty and smelly.

thelajestic · 2020-11-28T21:11:47+00:00

Yes, very much so.

trethethrowaway · 2020-11-28T21:44:11+00:00

Speaking from a guys perspective, every man has heard of or experienced stories where a dude was initially very physically attracted to a women and then in the bedroom may have noticed some sort of gross vaginal odour during sex. Pretty much all of these end in the guys never hooking up or meeting with the chick again. So the fact that smell can relinquish even the "unquenchable" male thirst to the point that they no longer desire sex with a women they were chasing tells it all I guess.

SavingsStrength0 · 2020-11-28T21:32:02+00:00

Yes but apparently a lot of women on breakingmoms and relationship advice have no problem w it tho🤣 A dude needs to clean up after himself. It’s the basic function of an adult, if he can’t even do that then.. good luck lol

relish5k · 2020-11-28T21:53:51+00:00

Most men I've dated have been cleaner than me lol. I've become tidier to meet my husband's standards.

2020-11-28T21:55:43+00:00

I'm not the tidiest person in the world - but I like my flat to reletively clean and tidy.

I wouldn't like a really messy snd unclean dude to live with me because too much mess stresses me out.

I like my space to be relaxing, a relaxing physical space just makes my mind more at ease.

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_mwk · 2020-11-28T21:37:27+00:00

very bad hygiene? yes dealbreaker, i am a very high disgust person when it comes to bodies and will not touch someone who smells bad, the only exception is sweaty sleep night smell, that's kind of a turn on but NOT gym sweaty smell tho

not cleaning after himself? i don't really care, i am also a messy person and i wont be living with him any time soon anyway, unless there's like...mold involved

Title	Is it a dealbreaker for you if a man is too messy/nasty?
Author	moritak69
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	November 28, 2020 5:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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