How do you cope with the stigma of coming from a Dysfunctional Family?

Quite often I read comments of people saying that if a woman comes from a dysfunctional family, and she does not have her father in her life, then that is a red flag.

And she should be overlooked: not chosen for as a potential partner.

I come from a dysfunctional family, my father was not in my life.

I was just wondering how other people who Come from a similar background feel about this pre-judgement, and how you cope with it.