Leftover woman complains that chads just want to use her for her body when they keep making sexual innuendos and talking about sex. Why won’t these chads be respectful and be in a relationship with an ex CC rider?

askmrcia · 2021-01-29T11:56:05+00:00

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coke501 · 2021-01-29T12:00:50+00:00

Any advice on how to curb or stop it

Stop using OLD. No man on Dating-apps is searching 35 year old women who wouldn't be dtf.

misteryolh · 2021-01-29T12:22:29+00:00

Wow, so now that men can get away with sex without commitment, all they want a 35yo used up woman is for sex?

Who could have possibly foreseen this???

Land_of_the_Losers · 2021-01-29T12:08:52+00:00

She should start a new app: Tinder for Celibate Former Sluts. Call it TiC4Sluts. There's no sexual innuendo, but plenty of hot respectful commitment innuendo, just perfect for the relationship-minded professional gym-going hunk with vestigial gonads who adores raising other men's kids. Scintillating!

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-01-29T14:31:00+00:00

they will automatically turn ANYTHING and EVERYTHING into something sexual

The PUA community figured out roughly 20 years ago how important the "escalate" portion of "instigate, isolate, and escalate" really is: if a man doesn't escalate quickly enough, he either gets friendzoned or just flat out ditched.

The word has spread, and almost every man knows to escalate and escalate fast if he wants any chance at getting laid.

Woman, this is an adaptation to how women treat men. Fucking deal with it.

Besides, most of you aren't worth any more effort than a quick fuck anyway.

adriannmng · 2021-01-29T12:40:35+00:00

She steers away from anything remotely sexual in her profile. But what about her photos? I bet she has at least one showing her boobs, and from some weird angle so as to appear bigger size. It's rare I see a female profile without at least a "here are my boobs" photo.

cjohn3b · 2021-01-29T13:32:38+00:00

35 LOL! Get used to it sweetie.

Tsnacker77 · 2021-01-29T14:03:15+00:00

Meh, she is projecting IMO.

I've seen this with 30+ OLD women like her. They make it about sex and actually will make the 1st move on you when horny. There are times I just wanted to get to know the woman and what I thought was someone looking for an ltr was someone looking to get laid.

Why are you telling men "I'm about to jump in the shower, or I'm in bed, or I'm in my bathroom? (doing what?)"- why not just say "I'm reading a book?" she is the one initiating the sexual behavior, and its OLD. its irresponsible for women to think theyre going to find and LTR with a possible HVM on a free dating app. Lazy ass women need to change their approach and stop expecting good dating outcomes just based off a few pics and a short bio on a free app.

Aldabruzzo · 2021-01-29T15:21:05+00:00

It's truly none of their business what I like in regards to my sex life until we've met up and even decided we are attracted to one another.

OK, but most men are not going to text you endlessly for 2 weeks about inane shit like your dog, your complaints about "working" at your "job", and the weather, while they know you're talking to at least 2 other men. They also know that you've given it up to Chadrone for free in under 2 hours.

They need to know if there is sexual attraction and you can know at least some of that before you meet. We have shit to do. We don't have time to waste on placating you. Express either sexual interest or sexual disinterest, and do it now so we can either explore it or delete you and move on. You can do it with Chad at the bar; you can goddamn well do it with online dating prospects by fingerfucking your phone.

They will automatically turn ANYTHING and EVERYTHING into something sexual.

You're complaining about men you find unattractive. If their pics are hot, YOU are the one bringing up sex. You're just pissed that the beta buxes you're trying to manipulate and fuck over aren't having any of it. You're just pissed you can't control and manipulate these men into dancing for you and slobbering at your feet.

I now always tell them I'm cleaning the bathroom because it's hard to make that sexual

Or just tell them you aren't interested in sex with them. Or just don't respond. Just ghost them like we know you will eventually.

Look, ladies - the entire point of this for men is to get to the sex. Everything else is kabuki theater. Everyone knows what's going on here - it's about whether we are going to give you what you want (attention, resources, validation, most of which you're getting from us for free by us texting you trying to get into your pants) and whether you are going to give us what we want (access to your bodies for sex, which we are working our asses off for). That's it.

So let's not waste time, and let's get to it - are you interested in giving us what we want, or not? If you are, or might be, great. Let's explore it and talk about it. If not, that's fine too - be big girls, use your words and say it, or use your fingers and swipe left and block/delete.

CuriousIncel2 · 2021-01-29T12:37:02+00:00

respect isn't what it used to be

Chivalry is dead, women killed it

HeftyAdministration8 · 2021-01-29T15:11:38+00:00

Back when she was age 18-22, this could have worked.

She's 35. She has no leverage to make guys wait. For anything.

Traksimuss · 2021-01-29T13:43:05+00:00

Probably not enough Chad text her, as she would giggle in delight when Chad makes sexual innuendos. Instead, some boring plumbers with own company or accountants for multi million accounts write her, and she simply does not feel that "decided we are attracted to each other". And when there is no Chad spark, she demands to be wined and dined without sex of course.

mustangfrank · 2021-01-29T14:12:31+00:00

Boo Hoo Only average men contact me. I am a 10 queen. Why do I only attract ugly men i.e. below an 8. why can't I get men like I used to at 25? All men are garbage.

Me: Where have I seen this before. If she were 25, she would not be complaining and she sure would not be interested in LTR's.

shrinkshooter · 2021-01-29T15:49:27+00:00

Something about sowing and reaping.

This is the society you created, you wanted to have your cake and eat it too, and men have, like all creatures do when within the confines of certain pressures, adapted to their environment. Fewer and fewer men are stupid enough now to be strung along or "settled for" or used as a safety net, and now you're mad that men are looking after only what they want after you and yours have been doing just that for decades without regard to consideration whatsoever.

Too fucking bad. I bet you weren't looking for a nice respectful relationship-minded man a decade ago, WERE you?

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-01-29T13:31:41+00:00

I have made that exact reply to the dessert question (not quite as boldly). Even exactly as a follow on from "you bring / make dessert"

And the girl was (seemingly) into it. At least at the time. Lockdowns prevented actually finding out.

What she is really saying is "guys I am not attracted to but look like good beta providers are being too suggestive".

(So I think the title might be a bit off)

BluepillProfessor · 2021-01-29T16:06:38+00:00

They have all those filters for their face and body. They have shit tests.

We have escalation. We advise guys to ABE- Always Be Escalating. If she doesn't like it then you have your answer and can bail quickly to somebody who is receptive.

We didn't make the game. We are just playing the game that women created.

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2021-01-29T17:58:01+00:00

Hey guys. I am a straight male who used to suck dick for fun on the weekends. After spending nearly HALF my life sucking cocks whenever I felt like, I got tired of it and cut back a bit.

So these days, I spend most evenings in a local gay bar for the lulz, and all these dudes keep trying to hit on me!. Like WTF bros! I am straight now. Uh HELLL-LLOOO!

Can anyone give me some advice how I can curb or stop THEIR behavior?

goodmansaysfuckyou · 2021-01-29T13:35:32+00:00

Get off of OLD. Your 'use by' date has expired. Sorry not sorry.

BluepillProfessor · 2021-01-29T15:57:46+00:00

Ex CC rider? She is riding it as hard as she can.

I want to know how many guys she fucked who "sexualized" the conversation early.

My bet is all of them who floated her canyon.

should I just suck it up

Yes dear. Open your mouth and close your lips around the fleshy tube right their and suck it up. Bitch.

dachengchuan · 2021-01-29T16:31:48+00:00

but mam ... when young all you wanted from chads was sex and other guys you used as slaves ... why chads should want anything else than sex ? chads are chads ... oh and you do not have any more slaves ...

NetherIndy · 2021-01-30T01:11:44+00:00

If I wanted a less than zero libido nag whose waistband and age are racing each other to 40, I'd have stayed married to my first wife.

SkylordAl · 2021-01-30T09:02:35+00:00

An example is that when I was talking to a guy about learning how to BBQ

What's funny is that she probably did know one guy in her social circle that would gladly date her and also teach her how to BBQ without any sexual innuendoes.

But of course, that guy was relegated in her tier list as a simp/orbiter, ironically because she knows that if she did ask him to do teach her how to BBQ, he will indeed do so without the innuendo. Which in turn causes the relegation as she finds his sincerity and purity of purpose sexually unattractive.

And the punchline: he eventually realizes that she only sees him as her simp/orbiter and at some point he moves on and slowly disassociates with her, as he inevitably tires of this one-sided relationship. This in turn leads to her current predicament, which she could have avoided if she gave him an actual chance to be her lover.

The-truth-hurts1 · 2021-01-29T23:49:28+00:00

Hard to say something sexually about cleaning the bathroom? Challenge accepted

“I’m cleaning the bathroom”...

I love a woman who is dirty on her knees
i wish I was your bathroom, I’d let you clean me all day long
the toilet is attached to the floor and I know I can’t move it, but I would love to push your stool in

IncorrigibleLee86 · 2021-01-30T04:46:43+00:00

The boys know that she's for the streets.

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