Plate slept through a date — ditch?

Azshira · 2021-02-18T17:31:56+00:00

She offered to reschedule, and apologized. Playing it chill is the best course of action for sure

MoreAlfa · 2021-02-18T17:22:12+00:00

You know, this is easy stuff. If you believe her, say "no problem" and just continue to have fun. If it happens again, then you should move on.

Honestly, if oversleeping is a mortal sin, then you should re-evaluate your rule system.

But, what really is happening is that you are trying to follow a set of red pill "rules" and that is a failing strategy. Oh, it's a nice start I guess, but ultimately you must make your own rules. By making your own rules, you will be more red pill than anyone who follows another person's rules.

So, she overslept--or she was fucking Chad. Either way, how do you want to handle it?

FirstName_LastName4 · 2021-02-18T18:10:49+00:00

Id say if it doesnt bother you hit her up when you want to hang out and act like nothing happened.

If it really bothers you and you want to be with only "fuck yes" women, next. If it was a date with diCaprio she wouldnt fall asleep

BoomerBasje · 2021-02-18T17:16:23+00:00

Im thinking she did this on purpose because of your valentines date, which shows a lot of commitment in my opinion

Your reply is good tho, wait for her to setup a new date after u sent it

cunningcaring · 2021-02-18T17:58:52+00:00

When you stop making mistakes you can expect perfection from other people.

Optionsmfd · 2021-02-18T19:58:01+00:00

What was it a breakfast date?

jjj2576 · 2021-02-18T20:30:36+00:00

Decide for yourself.

People make mistakes, but there is a threshold for bullshit.

Missing something as important as me is a Red Flag— if she has anything else that resembled a red flag, I would next.

MattyAnon · 2021-02-19T02:37:17+00:00

Should I reply and play it chill “np, shit happens. Another time.” Then ghost for a few days.

Yes... but when she wants to see her again, say "You gonna turn up this time?" .... generally give her a hard time. Tell her to bring food with her. Soemthing like that.

GothicSouthern · 2021-02-19T15:29:44+00:00

Still obv a sign of disrespect.

Wrong. You're all up in your ego here. Shit just happens sometimes, and it has nothing to do with you.

Neo_Natal · 2021-02-18T19:57:04+00:00

Why are you on here asking us? Mr PhD can’t figure out if he should forgive someone or not for sleeping?

You can’t get butt hurt every time girls make small mistakes. And you certainly shouldn’t ask the internet to hold your hand through the decision making.

Title	Plate slept through a date — ditch?
Author	militaryhistorian28
Upvotes	0
Comments	19
Date	February 18, 2021 5:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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