So Valentine’s Day is coming up, the day women expect gifts from their boyfriends, husbands, and other betas.

One of the gifts commonly given is a flower bouquet. When you first buy the flowers, they’re colorful, vibrant, and something new, and also expensive. When you give a woman flowers, she appreciates the gift and puts them on the table for everyone to see. She’s happy, and loves to look at them.

However, in about a week the flowers die and rot. About a day before they’re trash, she doesn’t care about the flowers anymore. Then she throws them away and looks for something new to put in its place on the table. They have no value anymore.

Now put yourself in the position of the flower. When you start a relationship, she sees you as something new, you’re mysterious, and you’re an alpha. You’re high value. As the relationship goes on, you get comfortable and lose your sense of purpose, and slowly rot. You stop going to the gym and become a beta. Now she sees you as the dead flower. You’re rotten and now have no value. She breaks up with you and looks for someone new to take your place. She probably already found her new flower while you were sitting on your ass eating Doritos.

Don’t let her treat you like a flower, always be lifting, working, and putting yourself first. Don’t forget your purpose.