How to last longer

Spirited-Foot · 2021-02-22T03:02:42+00:00

Here’s what I do: every time I feel like the orgasm is coming I Take long, controlled breaths in thru my nose and out my mouth. Usually it goes away after 4-5 deep breaths. I bet you’re breathing shallow , which increases stress and makes you finish faster.

Also , work on your core and hip strength so you don’t get physically tired. HIIT cardio is best for sex, no jogging.

Lastly, you’re an idiot for having sex without a condum. Good luck, DAD

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-02-22T07:01:59+00:00

Stop going crazy on these bitches and TAKE YOUR TIME. Enjoy everything about the bitch in front(or underneath) you. Slow stroke her, caress her, strobe her hair, squeeze her tits, passionately kiss while slow stroking her. That'll put a good 10-20 minutes on your time right there. FOCUS LESS ON GOING JACK RABBIT CRAZY AND PILE DRIVING HER AT LIGHTSPEED(FOR ALL OF 30 SECS) AND FOCUS ON MAKING IT PLEASURABLE FOR HER, STIMULATING HER, AND GIVING HER MULTIPLE INTENSE SQUIRTING ORGASMS.

JameisBong · 2021-02-22T11:26:31+00:00

Slow strokes and switch positions frequently.

NichRigga- · 2021-02-22T13:07:20+00:00

Biggest thing I noticed that effects boner strength/ stamina is diet. Eating at home is the best thing you can do. I used to buy fast food (pizza, mcdonalds...etc) all the time, and even though I was counting my calories, my erections were weaker. Now that im just eating food from, my body is just running better.

i-am-the-prize · 2021-02-22T06:15:39+00:00

Buy “the multi orgasmic man” book. Also deals a lot with control methods.

I’ve gone from a “normal” staying of 3-10 minutes for years before finding this book, to “as long as I want” after reading***. (Yes I also do kegels with a PF app and am very very fit and still sometimes switch positions - but only for variety- before it was to last longer).

*** yup. Nearly on command. It’s nuts. My LTR has called me a fuck-zen-master (she picked up on some of my breathing changes after I had read the book) at first she was a bit weirded out by it (insert her nervous laughter) then she started buying more lube and planning and looking forward to the mega sessions. Sex went from 1-2x a week to 4-7x a week. Let that sink in... From 3-15 minutes a week to 40-120 minutes per week, not counting foreplay.

Bonus: Her poon is like a vice now when she squeezes. Her tampon went up a size (when she’s relaxed her canal is bigger) her: “we are having So much sex - you fucked me wider!) but during sex she feels like a vice. “Poon gainz”. Literally muscle strength gains.

It’s been sort of a fun challenge for her to try and get me to cum through her squeezing. Anyways...

As long as she stays wet, no downsides- the feeling of power by lasting as long as you want is a trip. And the release pleasure after these extended sessions is worth the effort.

And unlike the guy who is recommending a GI Joe death grip below - which is terrible advice- I can come quickly if I want. (Just this month we decided to sneak into an alcove at a public venue and a 20 minute session there would not have been the most practical- she actually didn’t want to give it a shot thinking it was going to take a long time and I assured her that would not be a problem and sure enough it was a fun quickie- by choice.)

goudamac · 2021-02-22T14:09:31+00:00

As others have said, breath control is super important. Taking your time and focusing on her instead your time is important. I have also found that if I can find a way to fuck while standing up I can go forever. If the beds tall enough that's great, one thing I have at home is a foam plyo box that I got for home workouts but is AMAZING for fucking girls on in different positions while standing.

ComplexProjection · 2021-02-22T09:08:21+00:00

Why do you want to last longer ?

g0d_save_the_queen · 2021-02-22T03:03:30+00:00

you mean stop yourself from cooming to fast?

its simple,get used to fapping with a death grip with a mega fast pace,due to this the friction and hump speed is no where near close during sex so it makes you last literally till you get tired or bored

im in my 30s and ive never coomed by humping,even to get the wife pregnant i had to jack it and stick it in last second lol no meming.

its a gift and a curse tbh

Title	How to last longer
Author	GraniteBiceps
Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	February 22, 2021 2:48 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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