CMV: If polygamy became cool or trendy, more women will be willing to openly participate in it.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-03-15T14:59:19+00:00

Removed for low effort.

aerial_coitus · 2021-03-15T14:11:00+00:00

The trend is already here and women are already doing it en masse.

DicamVeritatem · 2021-03-15T14:18:16+00:00

Lots of women are in polygamous relationships and maintain “loyalty” to one man. They look the other way as to his relationships with other women.

They’d much rather share an apex man than have 100% of a “lesser” man.

It’s definitely an ascending trend.

Snacksbreak · 2021-03-15T14:32:46+00:00

You can say this for anything.

If pegging was cool/trendy, more men would be willing to openly acknowledge they get pegged.

solemn_aside · 2021-03-15T14:18:20+00:00

I thought women wanted monogamy. The fact that so many are into polygamy is mind blowing to me.

Demasii · 2021-03-15T14:22:41+00:00

I only know one woman who was involved in it. No one thought it was cool around her. She got pregnant and the father abandoned her.

It's work to maintain a healthy relationship with two people. It's way more work to add more.

geometersbane · 2021-03-15T14:28:37+00:00

Women have zero qualms about doing anything as long as it's socially acceptable and it doesn't make them look bad. It's all about optics.

PM_ME_SPICY_DECKS · 2021-03-15T14:46:37+00:00

"If something became popular it would be popular"

no shit sherlock.

They account for 80% of household spending,

Yes, the person who traditionally takes care of the home, groceries etc while the man is at work all day spends more. Why is this remarkable to you?

Competitive_Pen2282 · 2021-03-15T14:14:12+00:00

Yeah I am sure many women would not mind to have relationships with several men, each of whom would do nice things for her if it was more social acceptable.

Also other women would be okay to share one man if he was very rich and famous and many other men would be single and avaliable for relationships and perhaps open to engage in polygamous relationships with one woman.

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Aldabruzzo · 2021-03-15T15:03:30+00:00

No. More women will be willing to try it out, in secret, then most will reject it.

This is like every other sexual proclivity. Women try it out to see if they like it, find out they kinda do and go for it and keep it on the downlow. Or, more often, they find out they kinda don't like it, so they do it only for a little while, or they stop, again, on the downlow. And almost no one knows. This is true of:

--the cock carousel

--lesbianism (Remember "LUGs" - lesbian until graduation"?)

--sugar babying

--threesomes

--swinging

--dabbling in sex work (stripping, OnlyFans, etc.)

Women try it, don't like it, and stop doing it, and few to no one else ever knows they tried it.

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-03-15T14:45:10+00:00

The longer I see poly.

The more I read what people say about it and between the lines.

The more I am convinced of my initial impression of it over 20 years ago.

Poly is for people who want to be slutty but don't want to be seen as slutty.

Thats one part.

The other part is for... broken people... broken in self esteem, in personality, and especially mental health.

And there is a touch of politics of sorts too, at least reddit style poly. It's the type of mindset that wants people to act like they think they should act and not act like they really are. There is nothing wrong with poly on paper, hell on paper its better than monogamy. What is it, is not stable due to human nature. Jealousy and feeling left out is pretty much par for the course in poly. Most people can't handle that long term.

Women don't like poly anymore than men do as a group. In fact it plays more into the male nature of being a player, as more men want to be slutty than women.
Being a swinger, there are FWB's of mine I could fall in love with given the time and circumstance, this wouldn't make me poly, it would just make things worse and fucked up.

Title	CMV: If polygamy became cool or trendy, more women will be willing to openly participate in it.
Author	superstraggotno1
Upvotes	1
Comments	43
Date	March 15, 2021 1:21 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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