Questioning reality

OptimisticalRanger · 2021-05-22T02:07:13+00:00

It's like this... you don't need all of these things: career, social circle, money, education, looks, the potential for success etc. But you better have some of those.

My car is shit, my bachelor pad has barely any furniture. But I rock an entreprenuer / start up persona and my apartment is full of products that I sell. My car is terrible. But girls love my personality, confidence, looks and the value I provide to them. They are happy and having fun with me. They happily pay for things for me, I don't need to ask. "Your fridge looked empty so I went to the store and got some groceries". It's not that I can't afford it, it's just that girls look after me because they get value in what I provide them. Masculinity, happiness and my time.

Whilst I get older I realise money is important, but it is NOT a requirement for success with women. Neither is a nice car. Or height. Or hair. It's about creating value for the girl you're with. The best way to do that is to work on yourself and make as many experiences with women as possible (if that's where you find fulfilment).

Short and simple: there's more than 1 way to skin a cat. Providing emotional value is the answer to receiving anything from women.

MusicgoonV2 · 2021-05-22T01:40:41+00:00

Women aren't men. They are attracted to more than looks. It's a small portion of everything.

The most important aspect of getting women is Frame and Game.when I was really fat I pulled some super hot girls. And a few ok ones.

But most of those guys probably have confidence or good social skills.

Filmguy000 · 2021-05-22T01:58:38+00:00

I've seen those types of pairings here and there. But in my experience it is quite rare. Almost all guys with proper game/social skills can get laid/ have a girlfriend.

But I have rarely seen short dudes with tall women, or fat dudes with hot women. And even in these cases there was usually some kind of transaction going on (supporting a single mom, emotional band-aid due to severe daddy issues, etc.)

I don't think I've ever seen a short, bald and fat dude with no car and broke with an emotionally and financially stable 8 or 9. A woman like that would only go for a broke dude if he had game and the looks to get her wet. And even then she would likely keep him as her dirty secret.

The vast majority of women date/fuck at their level or higher as far as SMV.

TheeRickySpanish · 2021-05-22T05:47:34+00:00

True story. I remember I was at a taco shop waiting for my order and I saw this couple sitting at a table nearby. The girl was unattractive and overweight, the guy sitting across from her looked like a male model (no homo) and was probably about 6’3. I remember thinking to myself damn bro have some standards. Then I heard him speak and that guy was as gay as Adam Lambert sliding down a rainbow. Gayer than Clay Aiken roller skating backwards blowing a whistle.

What you’re seeing on the surface is not always the reality. You’re assuming that all of those people are in a relationship with one another. That guy could be a catfish, her gay best friend, her brother, her cousin, a coworker etc.

The general rule of thumb, never compare yourself to other people. Do what you need to do so that you can be the best version of yourself.

MatingAdvice · 2021-05-22T07:31:58+00:00

You can get married and she can be happy with you for some time, this doesn't mean that she is truly attracted.

tetrachromancy · 2021-05-24T04:57:09+00:00

Women are emotional not logical.

If you can make them feel something, they don’t care about the other stuff dudes obsess here over all the time.

Title	Questioning reality
Author	MagisteriumiiX
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	May 22, 2021 12:19 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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