I met this girl through mutual friends about 1.5 months ago. We’ve been on a date together which ended in a kiss. When I asked her about a second date, she said that she’d love to go on one.

For the second date I proposed Wednesday last week, but she said her friend was hosting a leaving party so she wouldn’t be available. The party never happened. I don’t know if it was canceled or there never was a party, but I didn’t bother overthinking on it and just went on with my day.

Later on that week, I moved into my new apartment and invited her to come and see it on the weekend. She said that on that day she’d be out of town, but she’d be arriving back late that night and if I was still awake she could possibly come to see it. I told her I had no plans that night except finishing off the move and that I’ll send her the address on the day and she said, “Great, I’ll let you know :)”.

In my experience, “I’ll let you know” is always a no. And now, I’ve had other plans come up, so I’d prefer a more definite answer from her so that I can decide what to do. Should I just send her the address and ask for a definite yes or no so that I can make other plans if she’s not interested?