I usually never mention this to anyone. But my mother left the house when I was about 12 to "find her independence". When I'm talking to girls on OLD sometimes after we get to know eachother better I mention this to them. I literally just tell them that my mother left the house when I was 12. I dont imply any value judgements at all.

Every time. Every single time I have ever mentioned this they always find a reason to defend her. I dont even tell them any reason, they immediately jump to try to tell me how she was justified in her actions. Whether it's telling me she was neglected or abused, or still loved me but needed space from my father. They always come up with something to defend her. Never, not one single time, ever, has anyone reacted to me telling them this with sympathy with how her actions could have affected me.

No. They can't do this. If they acknowledge that I could have been affected by this in some way that would mean my mother would be the perpetrator. And until in their head they clear of her wrongdoing they are unwilling to recognize that I could be affected in any negative way by it. ONLY once she is deemed innocent do they finally address the secondary concern of my well being.

This is the single biggest redpill I've ever experienced in my life. I've always gotten the same reaction, the exact same reaction from every female I've told, although I will say my sample size is admittingly small. They would rather prioritize the female collective over a male with real past experiences that they could potentially be dating. And that tells me exactly how I would be treated in a relationship.

I think this realization is what brought me here. Idc how many people call on this sub and ideology to be banned. I will always be with all of you in spirit no matter where we might all be, and a day will never go by in my life without being remembered exactly why we are correct.