Do men ever regret dehumanizing women?

wrice05 · 2021-03-17T15:40:52+00:00

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52490 · 2021-03-17T16:50:52+00:00

Sometimes it does. They may not be aware of it fully, but some do feel those feelings of guilt and it usually manifests in anger, usually taken out on their woman (surprise surprise). This is purely anecdotal based on what I’ve seen.

New_Article7411 · 2021-03-17T14:00:29+00:00

No, they don't. When a man pretends he cannot figure out how to do laundry by putting bleach in the darks and coincidentally just ruining his wife's clothes (dispite him doing complex tasks comptently in his line of work), he gets out of doing laundry forever. And he thinks his wife is dumb (unequal) for believing it was an accident. Or that his man brain just can't figure out the complexities of mundane household chores.Now his is wife is probably innocent and sweet, and thats an adorable quality. But he thinks she is dumb for believing him. Many, many men, wish they had the slaving wives of their fathers and feel cheated and robbed of that. Edit - As far as the happiness thing goes, yes they are happy. They have an extasy machine, meals cooked for them despite both partners working and paying 50/50, babies provided to them, that the woman raises the children for them. Most men think women are stupid. ( Naive). Really, nowadays both partners are working and the woman does all the housework and births and raises the kids. Shouldn't the men be providing home cooked meals for their wives after work and doing all the cooking and cleaning simply because she birthed the children? Simply out of appreciation and decency? You ever met a man grateful for his wife giving him children? If they don't feel bad doing it, THEY DON'T FEEL BAD AFTERWARDS.

missgelassenheit · 2021-03-17T18:53:18+00:00

I have had one admit it to me and say he was 'sooo selfish' and apologize after the 1.5 year situationship ended and he saw how his actions and lies hurt me but only once. This same man lacked empathy though and blamed me for my trauma so also not really.

Most of the other men in my life absolutely not. It is really sad that I think of that one guy who apologized as the best I have had yet. Im doing better now.

berryberrykicks · 2021-03-17T17:42:08+00:00

Men aren’t trying to pair with a woman, live with her for the rest of his life, have kids with her, and die with her at his side. Men and women are not looking for the same things in a relationship. Women want all those wonderful things.

Men want a mommy bangmaid who looks, says, and does what the man wants. If one woman isn’t fulfilling his expectations, he gets another woman.

That’s why men leave when women get sick. That’s why men don’t help with child care. That’s why men won’t marry women. That’s why men expend so much energy manipulating women into sleeping with them. Men see women as lifestyle accessories that they can mod and exchange.

If men saw women as equals, then they wouldn’t use and abuse women like they do.

shutup201 · 2021-03-18T00:12:09+00:00

They don't care. I feel like if they were capable of truly caring they wouldn't do it in the first place. Some will pretend to be sorry to reduce your anger to reduce any potential negative consequences they may have to deal with (it always goes back to them), but they're not worth giving the benefit of doubt. They simply don't have to regret or care. They're not empathetic and rarely suffer any negative consequences for their bad behavior.

Vmwvi · 2021-03-18T07:03:06+00:00

Mostly for selfish reasons, yes. Men who dehumanize women will regret losing free labour due to their terrible behaviour. They'll fake regret to get their free labour back. They might also "regret" it if they lose something that they want over it, like being fired, but they'll mostly resent the women for daring to inconvenience them slightly. Some might eventually but it's more of a "look at me, I regret everything bad I've ever done so I should be instantly forgiven" type of thing, normally at the end of their lives to reassure themselves that despite spending their whole life doing terrible things and hurting others they are not a bad person, when they really are. On rare occasions they might, but such occasions tend to be very rare, and their so called regret does not change the fact that they chose to and did hurt women.

skyerippa · 2021-03-18T06:23:03+00:00

I'm getting to a point where I don't think men and women are wired the same at all. If we are I dont understand how they can go through life that way.... it makes no sense to me

Title	Do men ever regret dehumanizing women?
Author	nothing998
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Date	March 17, 2021 9:00 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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