Been talking to this girl for a month. Great girl, and actual LTR material. She has a good head on her shoulders, career oriented, can hold a conversation, very feminine, offers to pay for dates, hasn't shit tested me (yet), always makes time for me whenever I ask to link with her and she asks me out too. She claimed to be a virgin (she's 23), and I was skeptical but I have reason to believe so since absolutely none of my friends who have known her know any of her bodies or anybody she's even talked to (and we're a fairly close knit college community).

I went over to her house last week, and obviously started my seduction while we were alone in her room. Told her to flip over for a back massage, she said she knows where back massages lead to and that we're not having sex. Anti-slut defense. I told her that I simply told her to roll over for a massage, and that I had no idea why she was bringing up sex. We get to it, and it's a normal massage. I then tell her to take off her top to make it easier, and she says sure as long as I take mine off.

Perfect.

We're both topless and making out. She stresses again that we cant have sex, because she wants to be in a relationship before she lets anyone hit. I say that's fine, we won't have sex tonight. I keep escalating and get her hot and heavy. I then take her hand and put it on my junk, and tell her we can do other things. She says that she really wants to but is hesitant. Eventually, after I bring it up once or twice more, she gives in and says she'll suck my dick but she's has no idea what she's doing. Typical, girls say this all the time, but when she was doing it to me she made a comment that it "looked like an eye" (lol, as if she's never seen a dick before?) and then she went to town. It wasn't a great BJ, I guess it was okay for a beginner. I had to instruct her on what I liked and she genuinely seemed not to know what to do. I asked her to deep throat it, she could only go halfway max, she said since she had a small mouth. I told her to spit on it, she was taken aback a little but did it anyways. Then when fingering she was super shy to even let me do that, and even 1 finger was super tight. Eventually she got on top of me naked and my dick was grinding on her vagina, and she seemed very concerned that it was and I assured her that I was only grinding and not sticking it in. I brought up the idea of sex again, she said no. She said that she really wants to have sex but again her rule of being in a relationship is what's holding her back. I completely dropped the subject.

I don't know what to do with this girl. Do I keep hanging out with her in hopes that since she has very high attraction to me she'll eventually let me fuck maybe after we link 1-2 more times? Or just let her go? Again, I genuinely enjoy her company, but sex is important to me.