Girlfriend texting other guys

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RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2016-12-11T23:37:47+00:00

Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Women(and men) will find a way to speak about what is on their heart. If these guys meant nothing to her, she wouldn't bring them up. Guys women do not care about are invisible to them and do not enter their mind. When these guys text a woman who is not interested in them, she will ignore them, or at the very least not bring them up to her boyfriend or a guy she is with.

Agree with /u/080802 she is fucking other dudes, no doubt about it. The only thing you can do is next her immediately.

This is why I say do not enter an LTR until you are at least 25 years old.

Reckfulness · 2016-12-12T01:23:16+00:00

I dont think you need to dump her right away, but make yourself unavailable for her, as she has been treating you. If she doesn't come back crawling for your ass then you know it's too late and time to dump her.

redpillnexus · 2016-12-12T01:06:40+00:00

Ghost her. What she's doing is unacceptable. She's practically cheating on you by texting all these other dudes. The only way to make this right is to dump her.

soccerbum312 · 2016-12-12T01:24:41+00:00

She isn't just texting them kid

edwardhwhite · 2016-12-12T03:55:34+00:00

Dump her now. Say you are looking for something else

failingtheturingtest · 2016-12-12T05:54:21+00:00

She is trying to make you jealous. Why is that acceptable?
Your relationship, your rules. But it is pretty clear that this girl is making sure she has options.
She's excited to talk to other men. And you are letting this happen.
You need to decide if you are OK with this (you are asking here, so I assume you aren't). You've already let this go on too long.

I'd say you have two options;
1. It is over. Move on.
2. Tell her that you have been more than reasonable, and expected her to know better. It's clear that you have to set the boundaries, so here they are. She no longer texts other guys, flirts with other guys and when her friends mention someone wanting her number she makes it clear she isn't interested. One error on her part means the end of the relationship. (You can't give her a second chance because you've let her disrespect you too long).

I would hedge a bet that you don't think you can enforce option 2. This means you have already lost her. Not accepting that means only drawing out your fate.

AWALT and you lost your frame. She is the captain now.

omega_dawg93 · 2016-12-12T18:14:34+00:00

young mofo has oneitis bad while living on the African river, "deee niiiile."

she's getting tossed when you aren't around... and you should be spinning plates like crazy.

Scymnus · 2016-12-11T23:36:12+00:00

You're obviously not cool with this, and because feminism we're not allowed to tell girls we are not cool with things like them talking to other guys. So you have to show her instead, and this is done by flirting with other girls or preferrably dumping her ass before you find out she's been cheating and end up depressed for 6 months.

raisins3142 · 2016-12-12T04:19:41+00:00

She is not at the age in the modern climate where she is going to settle down with a guy.

She will continually shop around for a better deal until she approaches the wall, and even then it only slows.

She is in her sexual prime and if at least somewhat attractive is flooded with attention which is catnip to her ego and she can weaponize it against you.

If you are not okay with this, then simply do not get serious with women for a while.

It is virtually unavoidable.

LordThunderbolt · 2016-12-12T22:58:11+00:00

She's a slut dude. A respectable woman doesn't do the Shit she does. She's already cheated.

Your next course of action is to demote this girl to plate status and start gaming other girls. This one isn't relationship material by any standard. Leave now before you get made more of a fool than you already are.

HookersAndBlow4ME · 2016-12-13T01:14:18+00:00

Bro you need to apply nuclear dread at this point - or next her ass.

latrash · 2016-12-11T23:44:16+00:00

Your girlfriend has a phone? Ghost and read sidebar.

creating_my_life · 2016-12-11T23:44:52+00:00

I'm 20, she's 18 and we've been in an LTR for 6 months.

stopped reading here.

Title	Girlfriend texting other guys
Author	Exoski
Upvotes	0
Comments	30
Date	December 11, 2016 11:22 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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