Question for married MGTOWs

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2021-07-14T14:55:22+00:00

It’s because if they lost weight and worked out, it’s because they want to leave you. They’re projecting.

Unit614 · 2021-07-14T15:23:46+00:00

If she said that, then you should definitely get in shape, to keep her on the edge. Inflict some insecurities into her, so she'll realize that you can look for new girls anytime.

TL;DR : Treat them like shit, do the opposite of whatever the fuck they said, they subconsciously love it.

Groundbreaking_the2 · 2021-07-14T15:48:49+00:00

After I discovered my ex had been cheating, I realized every time fitness became important to her, she cheated soon afterwards.

1Joker10 · 2021-07-14T19:04:05+00:00

Married MGTOW? So we spent the last 20 years saying no marriage no cohabitation no relationship, to make people understand what MGTOW means - MGTOW is confirmed bachelor (bachelorhood) - And you came here and tell me married MGTOW.

Poofysmoof · 2021-07-14T16:07:14+00:00

It’s the only way to be in a relationship. Always be on your A game. You must live your life so at any given moment you can walk and start over. Once they feel you are complacent and they have you by the balls your done. Any women of value will move on, that’s why men with no worth have to put up with so much bullshit. And even then they may still walk because they found a better deal.

Megitgud · 2021-07-14T17:53:46+00:00

Married mgtow

I have seen married redpill guys but not this, how does that even work? Can't your wife claim abuse/neglect if you just ignore her and do your own thing?

PrinceRaj53 · 2021-07-14T16:36:58+00:00

married MGTOWs

I didn't realise that persecutory delusion has such an amusing flavour in itself. Another way of expressing the mental masturbation & rationalizing, I guess, similar to how those husbands of single mothers rationalise their actions.

"Interesting", if I may say so of course.

Well, Since I am so generously getting downvoted this well, which is a good sign, let me give the downvoters more, um, what should I say - uh yes, "factual fuel" for them to hate me. Don't worry,, we'll have a Blast, I promise.

So, let's start with some queries folks : Have any of you ever seen a feminist who is not a feminist? A sexual act where there is nothing sexual? or even better, a woman who claims she is not like other women but at the same time does not do/say anything that proves that she is indeed like other women? No? Me neither.

So, if we take a look at the oxymoronic clan name that such guys have adopted(fortunately this time a single mom did not come with this adoption, whew), it does not even make sense. I mean, I know that some guys want to be part of the circus or whatever they think is going on here, but, ignoring reality for that will be a huge mistake.

No matter how much mental masturbation guys like this do, it does not change the fact that they are married, husbands. They are not "individual" as husbands. That husband, is not going "his" way, he is going her way, the way that is acceptable for her. The only difference is, this time, some men simply found a way to create a new reality in their mind where they are in control of the whole melodrama. And thus, the clan name "married mgtow". The nawalt cliche still tickles my funny bones with the "I'm not like the other girls", says literally the women who are exactly like each other. It's so similar.

This actually reminds me of something. Remember, Light Switch Effect? How women use it to create a new reality where the man never did anything at all and he's at fault for everything? I don't know, the mental masturbation & creating a new reality suddenly reminded me of this. Now, some may say : "But that's your definition. Its your particular world, not mine". But is it?

Our 'particular world' is based on factual, logical worldview of this world, not the other way around.

The interesting thing about An Individual philosophical lifestyle like MGTOW is : For a lifestyle like this to be the individual lifestyle that it is - it must have principles, values. The things that you hold dear to your heart while following your path. These ensure you are focused on the right path & is not getting away from it. All kinds of lifestyles have had this so far, which is what makes it different from movements or collective agendas.

MGTOW has three of such principles : No marriage, No cohabitation & always use protection : even if she says she's on the pill, don't believe it just like that.

There's no flat-earthing my way out of this, since it's not a kitty party where I would visit to brag about my husband's recent promotion & how he is useless except for that sweet sweet money & resources(assuming I'm a woman & I've a husband, things could have been so much easier if I had one, no?).

Now, if you say "guys who are married that warn young ones through their experiences", then I can understand. But the oxymoronic term called "married mgtow"? C'mon husbands, or rubber bands, you are better than that.

MoralsAreBaseless · 2021-07-14T20:55:59+00:00

If a woman doesn't want you to do something, it's probably good for you.

Selfmade_3127 · 2021-07-14T20:56:28+00:00

I told my former ex that my meals should have not more than 500 kcal ... she always made it around 1000 kcal ... I had to insert an additional fast day (intermediate fasting) to not gain weight ...

nantucketghost · 2021-07-15T01:24:20+00:00

Haha... So, in short yes, but only if you outshine them. I lost a ton of weight and got a six pack. Shit I was so proud of it, yet my wife was telling me I looked "too skinny".

I asked her years later and after I regained 15 lbs (I lost 40) and she said that she was just jealous. She was honest. I'm not back there yet, but she's now in the best shape of her life so I'm getting back there now as we speak. Well, not now, I'm typing, having a cigar and a drink, (my workout day off).

Anyhow, you are correct and that is directly from the horses mouth.

yahoo8324 · 2021-07-15T03:50:35+00:00

Married Mgtow? What is that

LastRounder · 2021-07-15T09:20:14+00:00

No she does not, because, am, well, I never been fat.

ImmortanV8 · 2021-07-15T14:03:21+00:00

Because your options increase and they don’t want that

Low_Echidna4462 · 2021-07-15T21:51:18+00:00

This is why the dad bod movement was a thing. Women dont want competition anxiety. They have the control in the relationship when their partner has a lower SMV.

And your options are pretty fuckin low if you have a gut and havent touched a barbell in the last few years. Being in shape is the one thing almost every person, rich or poor, can acheive, yet so few do.

kyledontcare · 2021-07-15T22:02:43+00:00

What they want most of all is a married to a buff, handsome, dude with money where she doesn't have to spread her legs and put out, instead just sleeping in and treating the guy like some docile little puppy on a leash and he has to put with all her crap out of fear of divorce rape.

Actavis_Prometh · 2021-07-14T18:31:15+00:00

Nope. I was pretty shredded pre marriage, and I work hard to maintain that with my wife’s full support. She is a unicorn though. They do exist, just so insanely rare they aren’t worth looking for. I’ve known her my entire life.

Title	Question for married MGTOWs
Author	Mindless-Pumpkin3395
Upvotes	31
Comments	32
Date	July 14, 2021 2:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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