Can LVM become HVM?

LifeInC0lour · 2021-07-07T16:21:38+00:00

LVM tend to have a lack is self awareness and a high ego which lends to them never changing. If you're thinking of anyone specific, just stay away

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-07-07T14:53:14+00:00

People who are low value in character generally stay low value unless there are severe consequences, especially related to health, financial, societal, interpersonal, etc. People who are low value out of apathy can usually shift when something sparks them to make a change in their life and seriously self reflect.

SuitablePerformance3 · 2021-07-07T15:03:52+00:00

Men and women are different. A man's version of low value often involves abuse and assault. Those are not things you can push aside, and they are a failing of his core character and male socialization.

NotSoSmartChick · 2021-07-07T14:24:43+00:00

I think they can become a HVM with a new woman, but not in a current relationship. Once a man has crossed those negative boundaries with a woman, they’re more than likely to cross them again. However, I’ve seen a few examples in my family where LVM learned from their mistakes and displayed HVM traits in the next relationship.

ponchoacademy · 2021-07-07T19:55:02+00:00

Im having a hard time with this question, even on a philosophical level, because to me its not a super productive question. Okay...lemme explain =)

On a personal, internal level, we can recognize things about ourselves and set goals that are wholly within our control and a personal responsibility to reach. Our personal journey is a priority and absolutely something to think about and focus on.

However, when it comes to the external level, be it family friends or a man, we have no control, its not our responsibility, and taking into account or even thinking about someone's potential instead of who they are right now does us no favors. So, in my personal point of view, it doesnt matter whether or not someone might one day in their journey be, whatever or whoever. What matters is,...who are they now and is who they are now someone who is aligned with my values and a asset, not a hinderance to my primary focus and a person I would like to include in my life.

Title	Can LVM become HVM?
Author	Hot-Raccoon1823
Upvotes	55
Comments	8
Date	July 7, 2021 1:57 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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