Before you start reading, this isn't about which pill is better or which sex has it easier or harder. Although there are truths to each, but by being an extremist, hate and suffering will always ensure.

I'm apart of the redpill subreddit and as well as female dating strategy subreddit. Reason I join them is to evaluate and try to understand mentalities of both parties. It just seems like an all out war between the two with unrealistic expectations. Trp warns men about gold diggers for example, they don't put out until they are settled. Then over at fds they talk about "standards" men need to provide before sex. But both subreddits agreed on being savage to the other sex in order to get what they want. With these manipulative mentality I'm surprised men and women even get together in the first place.

In life we should always hold shitty people accountable for their mishaps regardless of gender by judging them by thier actions instead. In my experience I've encountered people that are should be praised and some should be let loose in society. Few examples includes dead beat dads, my father was one. He wanted to pick a fight with everyone and will never look himself in the mirror. I've also encountered lazy victimization women that pushes responsibilities and blame every other external factors such as thier trama or mental health. On the flip side I've seen men and women that work extremely hard to provide for their families or to further themselves.

Perhaps monogamy is to be blamed or is that a whole new topic. Regardlessly, most people are selfish and will push thier agendas upon others if given the chance. There isn't a one set rule to everything in life when it comes to gender and sex. Thoughts?