How selfish women were until I started making a lot less money and working a “regular” job. I don’t disclose I owe a home and car free and clear. When I was in my prime earning days as a consultant, it was easy to have attention from women. These days…wow. (RANT/VENT) Seems like online dating is filled with people looking to enhance their life by finding someone they can use instead of organically getting to know someone and growing together. Imagine choosing someone for who they are and not what you think they can do for you…not everyone is going to meet the total financial, emotional, spiritual, physical, mental, and lifestyle ideals you’re seeking.