Divorce has been a topic of discussion between me and my wife quite frequently, and today she told me she had been unfaithful. I've wanted so badly to stick it out, and up until now, I thought I could. Now I'm thinking of my future going forward, and I feel like I'm drowning. I want to protect myself, but I'm concerned I will have to pay for everything. We have 1 child (11) in the household, and I don't want to lose my son. I also don't wish to take him from my wife. Im in the military at 16 years, just trying to push through to get to retirement at 20. She promised me so much and I hurt so bad. I want to get away so bad, but I'm scared where my feelings will take me.

  • Update - So I confessed my infidelity. I wanted to put it out there. I'm not a good person. Never have been. And I still love and want to be with my wife. I don't know what I was thinking but I'm trying to give my wife her options. I want her to tell me if she wants a divorce or if she wants to continue to stay, even after we both cheated.