God forbid men enjoy their hobbies and interests without being degraded for their gender

Badccg · 2021-07-12T15:42:28+00:00

Why is an abundance of men(sausage fest as they call it) annoying, yet an abundance of women welcomed? Are men really that disgusting to people?

Maviarab · 2021-07-12T17:38:21+00:00

If you don't identify as a "CIS" male (because you think all these new terms and pro-nouns are bullshit)....

Do you think she'd talk to you then?

gratis_eekhoorn · 2021-07-12T15:58:58+00:00

She says everyone is fine except cis men in her post and her comment and both of them get upvoted in a gaming community dominated by young men, this might give all of you an idea on how generations of men have been raised to hate themselves.

Door_Messiah · 2021-07-12T18:14:16+00:00

"Anyone who's not a Cis guy would be lovely". Sexist and transphobic, such a lovely person to play with.

AlternativeMirror740 · 2021-07-12T16:22:07+00:00

practically just asking for white knights to come and soothe her thoughts as though it is rational and valid at this point.

reddut_gang · 2021-07-12T19:05:09+00:00

people playing a game is annoying?

RanchyVegbutts · 2021-07-12T16:46:55+00:00

I love these bc they'll say there's nothing wrong with having a preference. I say ok, ok now, ok. I want you to do something for me, replace the word cis men with lgtbq+ in your previous statement... Hilarity ensues

CatmanMeow123 · 2021-07-12T15:33:47+00:00

I suppose essentially there is nothing wrong with wanting to find people of your own gender to enjoy hobbies together. If I were in her position and enjoyed a female dominant hobby I might seek out other men to do it with (although generally the perceived attitude is that men do ‘female’ hobbies to find women), her tone was really scummy.

She was “annoyed” that men enjoyed something? That women didn’t? That’s not anybody’s fault. I would not think it acceptable to post in a yoga subreddit about how annoyed I was that it was mostly women, even if I was looking for men to talk about yoga with.

What’s worse is she just comes out and says she doesn’t want to talk to cis men at all. That’s sexist.

And then finally, I feel so bad for men who feel that their voices are a burden or that it isn’t their place to speak, even though he’s talking about a completely unrelated thing! He should not feel like he is not allowed to have a voice because the original poster is a misandrist

gratis_eekhoorn · 2021-07-12T15:44:48+00:00

I think her point isn't that men shouldn't like the game. I think her point is that she wishes more women liked the game.

As for why she wants to play with just women/not cis men? Probably because she's had a few experiences with being harassed by men and she just wants to play without being harassed.

That second part may just be projection though. I myself wish there was more girl-only communities because sometimes I just want to play Among Us without being asked if I "want to suck femboy cock". Heck, I don't even really want a girl only community. I just want a community of normal people.

croatoan34 · 2021-07-12T18:17:20+00:00

I don’t really think they’re coming from a place of hate. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to hang out with people of your own gender.

John-Walker-1186 · 2021-07-12T19:46:27+00:00

r/VALORANT sends it's regard. some of the highest liked/awarded posts are about women there as well

Title	God forbid men enjoy their hobbies and interests without being degraded for their gender
Author	CatmanMeow123
Upvotes	94
Comments	68
Date	July 12, 2021 3:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/oitjr8/god_forbid_men_enjoy_their_hobbies_and_interests/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/god-forbid-men-enjoy-their-hobbies-and-interests.824406 https://theredarchive.com/post/824406

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