So my LTR and I have been passing through a bit of a rough patch. She's very highly strung and emotional and was very upset I didn't try to involve her more on my birthday (which I tried to do). She's not happy unless she's upset about something it seems to me.
One of the red pill strategies I've tried to follow is thinking of women as children and that's been very helpful in dealing with female behaviour. I don't concern myself too much with her temper tantrums, I don't get emotionally invested in arguments, I'm firm where I need to be.
However she was pissed off yesterday. Besides my birthday there have been other matters she's gotten mad over and she was swearing at me over the phone. Telling me I was full of bullshit, yelling "fuck you!" over the phone, saying she's not surprised an ex girlfriend of mine left me because I can be a selfish arsehole, and at one point -because of the fact I told her I didn't want her going out drinking too often on girl's nights out (which was a mistake on my part, should have ignored and told her she can do what she wants)- saying she doesn't have to be out at the clubs to cheat on me and that she can cheat on me anywhere. She also mentioned a good looking co-worker she's been working with and how people think he's her boyfriend.
For a long time I've tried to adopt this mindset of her being a child and this was another case where I saw her as a child throwing her toys out of the pram (she was in tears at the time and was very upset, trying to provoke me with these threats). I take a step back and just observe the situation and don't react to her bullshit. But I'm wondering if it's time to draw a line in view of the disrespect she showed in making these comments. And maybe the time has come to dump her ass.
Thoughts?
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