How Can I Help?

JustAnotherPersonToo · 2021-04-06T16:13:17+00:00

Speak publicly about how you were red pilled and why. Speak to your friends and family about it.

WeEatBabies · 2021-04-06T18:21:22+00:00

Just call out double standards against men when you see them.

We love you :)

hehimCA · 2021-04-06T18:17:53+00:00

See www.Gibm.us a good new nonprofit.

shit-zen-giggles · 2021-04-06T19:39:04+00:00

Here are links to two related organisations, if you want to become more active they might have local charters in your place and/or people who can inform you about activities that fit with your profile and aims:

https://equalitycanada.com/

https://ncfm.org/

SamaelET · 2021-04-06T20:58:33+00:00

We talk about male issues on this discord if it interest you : https://discord.gg/EnxNBW2jG7

As others have said, just calling double standard or sexism against men around you is already good. Giving to male domestic abuse shelters, male homelesses orgs, etc is a good way to help.

Mankind Initiative, 1in6.org, etc.

GojiNuts · 2021-04-06T18:20:38+00:00

It is gratifying to see such a post as yours. Thank you for your conviction. I wonder if there are any subs here or elsewhere for women who, like you, comes upon this realisation as you. If there aren't any, perhaps starting one might be a way to go, to bring about more awareness among women.

_harsh_ko_ · 2021-04-07T07:39:26+00:00

You are a really nice person. What I can recommend is go on Twitter and first talk about feminism and basically attract an audience then educate that audience on bad shit that happens with men too. In my opinion, if done right this can be pretty useful. Most of your audience, if you talk about feminism, would be teen girls btw.(as I think, not sure they could be adults)

hendrixski · 2021-04-07T11:29:15+00:00

Personally I'm a fan of National Parents Organization. They do great work on what I consider the largest men's rights issue: bias in custody laws.

Check out their States custody laws report card.

MotherAvocado2010 · 2021-04-07T15:23:13+00:00

I honestly dont expect you to do anything. You are still a woman and have your own shit to deal with that comes a long with that. Just be a ally. Its like when women get upset at men for not being an ultra-feminists, like i got my own problem and issues that need my attention, its hard to focus on everything and everyone else.

DownvoteMe2021 · 2021-04-07T00:47:36+00:00

Women's power specifically lay with their emotional intuition and ability to manipulate it as a tool, for good OR bad. Like any tool, in it's own right, it is not good or bad, but how you use it.

The most good a woman can do is to assist (or even run) the organization of pro-men social movements. Why would a woman run this? Men are generally less capable of this by design. This doesn't mean host a cookie bake at church, this means get other like minded women (and men) and actually show up somewhere so that you are represented. In propaganda, the use of facts by the target of the propaganda is worthless, which is why men are at a disadvantage, because they are the target and they deal in facts. When Women are the voice, however, it becomes much harder to deflate without deflating themselves with obvious hypocrisy.

One angle I've yet to see played for some reason, is that Feminism is stealing money from stay at home moms. Why are women stealing from other women? This isn't empowerment!

How are they stealing from other women? If men's salaries are reduced in order to pay women more, that money has to come from somewhere. In a traditionally modeled relationship, the man is the primary (and potentially only) source of income. If his income is reduced, than effectively so is his stay-at-home partner's income. This is women stealing from women. It is also women de-valuing women. A constant classic complaint is that Men don't respect the work that Women do at home, and indeed this is an important balance of respect to maintain. However, in reducing the pay of Single-earner men and their stay-at-home partners, it is actually Women who are de-valuing the work that women do at home, literally by making it less valuable. Why are women bashing other women?

These are the sorts of narratives that you as a woman can be discussing with your other lady friends, and male supporters, but discussion is not enough. People much more often respond to what they see and hear, if they aren't seeing and hearing you, they won't respond. Put yourself into the "not so sure" discussion panels and look at the strategy being used by Feminism; "Look at all the bad men do, but don't look at all the good" and do the Opposite. Force people into the position of publicly de-valuing the SAHM (they'll try very hard to avoid admitting they're doing this), and thus de-value their own credibility. You will not convince a zealot, they're already lost, but you might convince a "not-yet-decided" person.

"What do you have against stay at home moms"
"Why are you trying to make me feel bad about my choices"
"Why should single moms get help from government funding when my 1 income family doesn't? We made sacrifices to get here, I've worked hard as a SAHM". etc etc.

Don't argue facts as a Woman, argue feelings, feelings build protests, not facts. You can use facts to back up your feelings, but if you try to use them to start with, they'll be entirely disregarded. For instance:

Fact1: Women make less in the workplace than men.
Fact2: Women work less hours, in less dangerous jobs than men. 97% of workplace casualties are men. Men are compensated more for these differences.

Emotional Re-direct: As more and more women entire the workforce, the suicide rates of women are climbing twice as fast as men. We need to stop women from being forced into a lifestyle that causes them to kill themselves so much.

If we leave out number two, number one looks a whole lot more outrageous, but you can't argue #2 after the fact because it doesn't inflame anyone, and once someone is enraged they typically cannot be quelled, they can only be re-directed until they burn out or blow up, which is simply manipulation of their emotion. The emotional re-direct takes the anger they already have and points it back at the very ideals that got them angry in the first place.

This is why Women have such a harder time with leaving emotional Narcissist's, because women are not used to being battled by men with their own manipulative tools. It is also why men get 'taken to the cleaner' by scorned Women, because Women will use emotional manipulation to mis-represent the state of the relationship until they're ready to drop a bomb on a very un-prepared partner.

Title	How Can I Help?
Author	lysissnuball
Upvotes	72
Comments	28
Date	April 6, 2021 3:27 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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