Girl Didn't Want To Have Sex With Me On First Date..

WildTenderness · 2020-08-16T01:44:06+00:00

The fact that he starts blaming a random commenter for triggering his suddenly recurring depression/anxiety after getting called out...

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-08-16T01:04:56+00:00

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Before starting this post please get a chance to read my issues overcoming depression/social anxiety and being a virgin at 28yrs old so you can understand this post.

Me and this girl have been talking for quite awhile now and we both agreed to go on a date. She gave me two options, go to an Airbnb or a bar... Now I can admit that when she said Airbnb I legit felt like she totally wants to have sex with me on our first date and this would be my first time. I ended up booking a cheap hotel for the night and paid for her uber to arrive there. During our date I kept getting compliments about my looks and she kept feeling on me, we had some beer to drink lol but a hour or two later I finally try to go in to start having sex, kissing her neck on top of her and I asked her if she wants to start getting it going she then plays dumb and then starts saying "I dont have sex on the first day, Im sorry you felt that way if thats the impression I gave you". I was confounded! I legit paid for a hotel, her ride and mines only to not get anything lol.

And yes, of course even though I did all those things for her it was still a 95% thing to me that I'll get laid or not if she dug my personality but also a lot of people aren't into banging on the first date which I completely understand.

Do you find it weird for a girl to want to meet you for the first time in an enclosed space like a hotel or Airbnb? I feel like those are "I wanna have sex with you" signs right there.

Keep in mind I'm still a virgin lol I went through a lot and I'm just now starting to take control and live life!

I would love to hear your thoughts and advice to keep me motivated. I got two dates next weekend as well.

chateauduchat · 2020-08-16T01:35:21+00:00

Yuck cheap hotel my ass. I’ve had men fly me up to cities and book 5 star hotels explicitly stated for myself, everything paid for. You give men an inch, they’ll expect a mile. Gross

Edit: aww who gave me gold? Guess I really am a gold digger for real now 😂👍🏻 thank you kind stranger!

Title	Girl Didn't Want To Have Sex With Me On First Date..
Author	2993
Upvotes	16
Comments	13
Date	August 15, 2020 9:36 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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