Not sure if this belongs here, but how to interact with other women behaving inappropriately?

fpmotivation · 2014-06-05T04:02:15+00:00

Smile at them and touch your husband in a familiar way. Snuggling into his chest, stroking his cheek, chest, giving him a quick kiss, make some lovey eye contact with him. See if she can flirt then.

***Disclaimer! Do not do this if the woman attempting to pick up your husband also wants to have you as well. Do not make eye contact, do not pass go, get out of there. It will only become a very uncomfortable for everyone.

[deleted] · 2014-06-05T03:24:14+00:00

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eatplaycrush · 2014-06-05T03:09:06+00:00

You're being paranoid, in my opinion. I personally enjoy watching other females flirt with my SO. It's more so entertainment to me which I would rather have versus anger or anxiety. It constantly reaffirms his value out in the world, not just to me because obviously to me he is high value.

When this happens I usually just smile and silently laugh. I'll touch him more closely in front of women who do this and if never goes too far. If it did they would know, but they wouldn't hear it from me as my SO constantly is grossed out by women in our state so I can only imagine what he would say lol

gabilromariz · 2014-06-05T11:27:46+00:00

Things you can do:

ignore to show you're confident enough to know they ain't got a chance
say something along the lines of: "Wondeful catch I got, don't you agree?". Consider it a compliment to your taste
strike conversation with the girl in a friendly way to "distract her". talk about girly things, compliment her dress or something she won't be able to help it but talk more to you
talk to your husband. maybe he can fend off the worst of it (with stuff like "Annie, I don't think you've met my wife. myluckystars, this is Annie.") and you deal with the rest

It sounds like you're unconfortable with your current weight. But you can work on your looks despite that to look even better than thin girls with worse taste/care. Get some nice looking clothes (not tight, just well cut) and some nice makeup going. Fix up your hair, nails, etc and focus on why you're better for your man than any other girl.

You may want to enlist his help for this the first couple of times. After the first 2 or 3 you'll be able to deal with this alone.

Pink_acetaminophen · 2014-06-05T18:38:49+00:00

Knock her down and bang him on top of her body.

proprioceptor · 2014-06-05T11:41:12+00:00

I've seen some of this in my relationship too. When it would happen it would just completely knock down my self esteem. Especially because he was reacting, honestly, kind of like your husband when he's in that situation. My first thought was definitely "am I really not worth sticking up for?"

I finally asked him about it, and I told him that it hurt when he was interacting with a woman that was blatantly disrespecting me and he didn't do anything about it. Now we get even more affectionate when that happens. I also start trying to be a part of their conversation, and just kept being super friendly. I feel better when I can do that, because I'm not letting them walk all over me. Show yourself off. Show them why you're the one he chose.

MrsStrom · 2014-06-05T14:06:53+00:00

Personally, I take it as a compliment. But Mr. Strom is very good at not realizing it when women are throwing themselves at him. And really, it makes me want him, knowing other women would like to have him.

systembreaker · 2014-06-06T07:19:00+00:00

I think you're probably misreading things. Especially considering that you mentioned depression. It could be a self-fulfilling prophecy in your head where you think (quote) "Am I just being paranoid, or do they know that I'm at an evolutionary disadvantage because I look and act like someone that is sick and socially inferior?" and then you're focusing on that (hamstering, anyone?) and hawkishly looking for any sign to confirm it.

Most likely the other women just see you two as a cute couple and are just trying to be extra polite in order to AVOID causing the situations that you are mentioning.

Don't worry about it. Let it all go. You're thinking way too hard and are going to wear yourself out worrying about things that haven't happened yet.

wendy-fly · 2014-06-11T01:42:27+00:00

First, your weight is a very healthy weight- a BMI of 21.5. Going down to 120 would put you at 19.4, still considered healthy. I just want to point out that 135 at 5.6 is far from fat. If you are trying to get pregnant, I don't know if going down to almost underweight is the best idea. If your doctors are okay with it, who I am to say of course. Does your husband like your current weight and body?

If you can't take the other ladies advice and enjoy the fact you have a desirable husband, I like the idea of touching your husband in a familiar way- kissing his cheek or holding his hand. It clearly marks your territory.

Aerobus · 2014-06-05T19:11:17+00:00

You don't. You surround yourself and interact with other respectable women like yourself.

You are the people you associate with.

Title	Not sure if this belongs here, but how to interact with other women behaving inappropriately?
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Date	June 5, 2014 1:20 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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