Friends! Can I get some amazing suggestions for one of those relationship coupon books??

scallopkid · 2015-11-22T05:09:57+00:00

I'd feel weird about giving a guy a coupon for a blow job. I can't think of anything I'd want to put on coupons, like, wouldn't I already do those things?

windlabyrinth · 2015-11-22T06:26:26+00:00

Just beware, this backfired on me years ago. It ended up somewhat hurting him because he felt 1) what was already mentioned (wouldn't we do this anyway) and 2) by pulling out whatever coupon that he was presenting a chore and not something we'd actually want to do - I'd be doing something out of obligation and this would take away from the fun.

I think it'd be better to just plan an activity or excursion or have a little list of ideas and just bust them out at the right time.

Littleknownfacts · 2015-11-22T12:56:03+00:00

My boyfriend gave me one of those coupon books but it wasn't homemade for Valentine's day last year. Anyway some of my personal favorite ones were king or queen for a day (I choose volunteering, then building a pillow fort, then dinner at my favorite restaurant), picnic, surprise gift, and sensual massage. Some other ones that I didn't use use were a night alone, lingerie, and chocolates with champagne. I hope you find this inspiring.

littlek1ttenprincess · 2015-11-22T13:51:19+00:00

Something that will make them super special is of you make them yourself! Either at a craft store or online you can get the silver "scratch ticket" paint. And get some pretty scrapbook or construction paper and write in your "coupon" paint over it and voila!

Edit: sorry this response is late and you probably gave him the gift already!

Lilia42 · 2015-11-25T03:28:27+00:00

Sorry, but when I hear the phrase relationship coupons I can only think of this video

FleetingWish · 2015-11-22T17:54:15+00:00

I would say no on a coupon book. Coupon books are for people who don't already do those things on a regular basis.

It is so patronizing. It is like, "here, let me give you the license to get the one of the things I know you like, so I should be doing these things for you all year round, but I don't do because I don't value your happiness. But just this once, I will treat you well because it is your birthday." Somewhere on reddit there is a great example of what I am talking about, I will update this post if I can find it.

BJs should the norm. Breakfast in bed can be less often, but if you know he likes it you should surprise him with it just because it is Saturday and you love him. Anything that you could give him in a coupon book is a humiliating way to remind him you don't give him those things already.

RPW give their men what they want, because they care about their men. That is the norm. And on their man's birthday, they go above and beyond that.

Also, a coupon book is extremely low effort. It is right there next to "gift card" on the list of "couldn't be bothered to think about what you might really want" gifts.

Title	Friends! Can I get some amazing suggestions for one of those relationship coupon books??
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Date	November 22, 2015 4:10 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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