Hello everyone... I've been seeing someone I met over three months ago, dating officially since almost three months. I have naturally been RPW although I don't know anybody like this which is why I'm coming to this forum. It was all going so well, we are quite similar and could talk freely. We were so open and honest with each other and he told me things that were very personal that makes me think it was too close for him that maybe made him freak out.

He's been taking accutane since I met him which made him unable to have sex. He kept saying he would be able to in a week, in two weeks, etc. I would stay the night and we would cuddle and talk instead which I was happy with. I said I was willing to wait, that I felt very happy with him and he said I always make him feel so good. We were very affectionate and closer than any other guy I've been with.

This week we went out three times even though he is a busy person but he initiated the dates. He would always make plans to see me, text me, and was receptive to my texts (previous advice was very helpful from this forum). On Friday I was meant to stay the night at his and he said he was too tired and I got a bit upset especially as I was near his and over an hour away from home. But then after a few minutes it was fine, we talked about it and he said I should stay over on Sunday instead. So today he came to meet me where I was in a beautiful part of the city, we went for a long walk and kissed,flirted, laughed. We went to a pub and he asked me why was I not more upset about his inability to have sex and how I feel about our relationship. I said it's because I'm happy with him, I have faith he will get over it once he finishes his prescription this month, etc. He said he wasn't sure he wanted to be in a relationship because he felt I was getting attached and he was not at the same level yet (even though he was making a lot of the advances). He said he doesn't want to lead me on by Dating me and then deciding to not want to anymore later down the line, that I'm the best woman he's ever dated but he feels like a failure for dating me for over two months and not having sex. I asked him if that was the main reason for wanting to leave me and he said that the main reason was because he wants his freedom :/ I'm a very laid back and happy person but he said every relationship you have to give up some freedom.

I'm upset, what did I do wrong? Was I coming on too strong? I have no idea what to do next, I'm glad he was so honest but I feel so rejected and like a loser for showing him my feelings.