Hi all,
I turned 20 years old about two months ago, been in the army since I was eighteen. I recently was falsely accused of domestic abuse by my spouse and have two arrests for it available publicly. I am fighting these cases in court. My command fought to keep me because they knew I didn't do it, and my wife has admitted repeatedly to making it up, out of sheer stupidity or pregnancy hormones I don't know, but the colonel isn't having any of it and is pushing for me to get out. The fucked thing is I'm getting a chapter 14 12c which is normally reserved for drug offenses. I am losing all of my benefits, and my career that I worked so hard for. She has cried and cried and apologized to me begging me to forgive her. I know for a fact she is naive and childish, but at the moment I'm a bit numb seeing my life's work go up in flames.
I have absolutely nothing but the clothes on my back. I can save very little. I am getting 20,000 in January from an annuity. I am twenty years old. I have no real job skills, and I have a highschool education. I had just started college when this happened, and I had to withdraw. I guess I'm asking what I should do when I get out in 1-3 months.
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