‘Be an adult and take responsibility’. Just imagine saying that to a woman for an unplanned pregnancy. Is this equality? I do not think so

Lethn · 2019-05-28T20:03:58+00:00

I actually find this quite funny, I know, I'm fucked up but think about it, it's inevitably women that make these kinds of statements to men who ask these sorts of questions and bizarrely even feminists are telling guys to practice abstinence.

So what do we have now? Massive drops in marriage rates, men are outright avoiding contact with women in the workplace because they just don't want the trouble and they're just refusing all closed door contact and this is recorded fact now.

Women told men to take responsibility for their actions, now they're bitching that men are actually doing it. This isn't just a feminist thing by the way I think I can safely point this out as a gender based problem, there really does seem to be a ridiculous trend out there of women who just sabotage their own chances of finding a long term boyfriend at every opportunity.

If it isn't ridiculous, long winded and unrealistic checklists it's shit like this. It's the equivalent of getting into a really unpleasant fight with somebody and then screaming "WHY DON'T YOU JUST LEAVE?!" and then doing a surprised pikachu face when they've finally had enough and really do fuck off to find somebody else.

HeForeverBleeds · 2019-05-28T19:51:27+00:00

"If you don't want to worry about unintended pregnancy, don't have sex"

I wouldn't be surprised is the very same cunt who wrote this is outraged by the Georgia abortion law situation and pro-life people in general

Not only is it a double standard, but it ignores the reality of women raping men or boys, in which case the victims are forced to worry about a pregnancy they neither intended nor caused. "Don't have sex" doesn't protect guys in those situations

It's one of the many areas where males face institutional discrimination. They can be either forced to provide for an unwanted child (even when they didn't consent to the sex), or forced to let their unborn child be killed, entirely at the whim of the woman. And yet morons want to say we live in a "Patriarchy"

mikebong64 · 2019-05-28T22:21:03+00:00

Because accidents and lies are never told to con someone into a situation and abuse them.

Women trapping men with a child is a pretty common thing these days. And there's no real recourse for men in the courts to do anything about it.

5th_Law_of_Robotics · 2019-05-29T01:06:15+00:00

Literally every feminist who discusses men's reproductive Rights ends up repeating pro life slogans.

Akesgeroth · 2019-05-29T02:01:06+00:00

"If you don't want to worry about unintended pregnancy, don't have sex."

Gee wiz, I guess they're pro-life.

2019-05-29T01:38:59+00:00

If that last paragraph was said by a man to a woman he'd be the piece of shit. But nah men are still the piece of shit regardless.

McFeely_Smackup · 2019-05-28T21:26:45+00:00

that entire second paragraph is an argument in favor of banning abortion.

Jex117 · 2019-05-28T22:53:37+00:00

This is literally what feminists originally fought against when they were lobbying for reproductive rights & access to abortion.

We've come full circle. Feminists have become the authoritarians they once fought.

2019-05-28T21:50:45+00:00

I'm prochoice but this makes my blood boil...

BachKunst · 2019-05-29T06:29:28+00:00

This reminds me of this almost self awarewolf from yesterdays twox thread:

To think that people really want to tell OTHER people what to do with THEIR bodies is beyond insane. How, from a logical standpoint, is it even sane to force someone to fulfill a lifelong investment when there could be TONS of factors that could be a nightmare for the woman.

She almost got it and then missed it by a mile.

JakeDC · 2019-05-29T10:56:31+00:00

The fact that they trot out classic arguments against abortion and use them against men shows an astounding lack of self-awareness.

reddit-guy61 · 2019-05-29T13:03:06+00:00

Consent to sex does not imply consent to fatherhood.

SirYouAreIncorrect · 2019-05-29T09:42:49+00:00

I used to be Pro-Choice, but then encountered this type of shit, now I am 100% Pro-Life.

Every time I encounter a women that screams at me "My Body my Choice" I respond exactly like the last line "If you do not want to worry about pregnancy, don't have sex. If you are going to be an adult and have sex you also need to be an adult and understand that children can result from your actions"

That really pisses off the Feminists

filledboy · 2019-05-29T03:07:47+00:00

What subreddit was this asked on? A little more context would be nice

2019-05-29T06:03:24+00:00

Accidentally trolled herself

LionVenom10 · 2019-05-29T09:11:50+00:00

Don’t have sex, get shamed for being an incel virgin. Lose lose situation

biff64gc · 2019-05-29T11:17:34+00:00

I mean, if you have the foresight to want someone to sign a contract so you don't have to be a dad then you really should be using your own condom that you take with you afterwards.

Just another reason why we need a male birth control pill.

SubstantialTension3 · 2019-05-29T04:18:01+00:00

Men should be able to forfeit parental right 2 weeks before the child is conceived. On the form it should have a list of birth control methods of both parties and whether or not the party will use them. Also listed should be the condom brand and the plan parent signature. This way the woman knows that the man has no intention to father a child and she can make the most informed decision on her body.

I don't believe that you should have a contract to force women to have a abortion . That would be wrong.

howdyallitsbenoof · 2019-05-29T00:00:43+00:00

They are right, but it needs to go both ways.

pobretano · 2019-05-29T17:33:09+00:00

Consent to sex is not consent to kids - except if you are a fucking white male!

elebrin · 2019-05-29T18:26:02+00:00

I have said it before, and I will say it again:

> Make absolutely certain you trust your partner before you fuck. That means you've talked honestly like adults about what birth control you will use, what the plan will be if there is a disease, if the relationship will be open or not and who the other partners are, what you will do if a child comes into the question, what will happen when one person wants to stop, and how it will be dealt with, what happens when one person needs some intimate contact but the other cannot provide it, are porn and mastrubation acceptable in the context of the relationship, and so on. And both parties need to honestly agree.

Casual sex simply doesn't exist. People who think it does are naive at best and are going to hurt themselves and others. One of the warning signs that someone isn't really able to handle that sort of a relationship is an unwillingness to have the sort of adult discussion that I specified above.

You can't approach sex with your head in the sand and not plan for the possibilities. You probably don't want to approach sex with the cynical attitude that it everything that can go wrong likely will and avoid it completely. You must approach it *knowing that things can go wrong,* accept that risk, mitigate it, and have a plan for if it does that everyone involved agrees to.

Of course, doing that means talking honestly about things that you value, thinking deeply about what you want in life and how you might realistically respond to big life changing experiences, honestly making compromises, truly valuing the ideas and values of others, and so on - all things many people simply aren't able to do.

notsocommon_folk · 2019-05-29T12:33:55+00:00

I mean, I don't really disagree with that. If a man doesn't want to be a husband to woman that is pregnant, it's okey. If he doesn't want to be a father, that's okey too. There should be the option that you can opt- out from these kinds of things. But yeah, children CAN result from your actions, don't act like I don't know what. If you don't want to mess with the possibility of having children either do a vasectomy or don't do any sex, like Steven Crowder

devillived · 2019-05-29T12:15:28+00:00

It seems that as we move into the future, we are just going to fuck ourselves over in many weird and wonderful ways. The downfall of mankind might just be ourselves.

Criket · 2019-05-28T20:59:34+00:00

I'll do!

slixx_06 · 2019-05-29T04:01:59+00:00

I wonder if a caitlyn jenner can ask for an abortion.

Title	‘Be an adult and take responsibility’. Just imagine saying that to a woman for an unplanned pregnancy. Is this equality? I do not think so
Author	BachKunst
Upvotes	378
Comments	48
Date	May 28, 2019 7:35 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/bu4f8u/be_an_adult_and_take_responsibility_just_imagine/
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