How to Raise Sons Who Don’t Sexually Assault

Vwar · 2018-10-14T16:22:26+00:00

Upvoted to highlight the absurdity of the feminist position on this issue.

Perhaps it would be better if we taught female teachers not to rape boys, since it seems to be happening pretty much every day now. Strange that this is completely ignored by the MeToo movement, as is the fact that women coerce men into sex just as often as vice versa. We're more concerned about adult women feeling uncomfortable if some unattractive guy hits on her.

The best way of raising sons who don't sexually assault?

Ensure they are raised with their biological fathers. 80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)
Ensure as best you can that they not be molested by a woman, and that if they are, the assault is treated with the seriousness it deserves:

"Finally, there is an alarmingly high rate of sexual abuse by females in the backgrounds of rapists, sex offenders and sexually aggressive men - 59% (Petrovich and Templer, 1984), 66% (Groth, 1979) and 80% (Briere and Smiljanich, 1993). A strong case for the need to identify female perpetrators can be found in Table 4, which presents the findings from a study of adolescent sex offenders by O'Brien (1989). Male adolescent sex offenders abused by "females only" chose female victims almost exclusively."

http://canadiancrc.com/The_Invisible_Boy_Report.aspx#Chapter2

This is why feminism is not only useless but dangerous. It views both sexes as living in a vacuum when in fact we constantly interact; and it portrays females as harmless and helpless damsels when in fact they are powerful agents and just as capable of causing harm as men. Especially mothers raising sons.

It is rage inducing that (I'm guessing) about 95 of feminists are completely unaware of the studies I just cited. The other 5 percent successfully buried the truth in order to perpetuate their hate movement against males.

Lupinfujiko · 2018-10-14T12:37:30+00:00

Strategy No. 1: Make your boys feel as comfortable as possible experiencing and discussing emotions.

I really get annoyed when I see this pedantic falsehood being pedaled around the Internet like it's gospel.

Have you ever noticed what happens to males when they do show their emotions?

Witness Brett Kavanaugh. He showed emotion. And what happened? He was ridiculed, marginalized, lampooned, believed to be "lying", and perhaps most telling, was told he "wasn't fit for the job".

When men show their emotions, this is what happens.

Furthermore, men do show their emotions. One difference between males and females, is that people actually listen to females.

They sure as fuck don't listen to males.

There. I just showed emotion. How much do you want to bet if I had written that in a forum with women present they would try to ban me.

Anger is a male emotion. I fucking wish women, and other males for that matter, could understand that. It isn't a means of aggression. It isn't something to be rejected. It's an emotion.

People seem to categorically reject anger. How often have you heard, "I'm not going to speak to you until you calm down."? Then, in the next breath we're told we're not "showing our emotions".

The simple fact is that men do show their emotions. We express them differently than women.

Women seem to have a hard time understanding that.

Maybe it's about time women take a step back, and actually listen to us for a change.

M_a_t_t_y · 2018-10-14T14:12:05+00:00

From the article:

Before the Kavanaugh saga, that was not a question most parents usually pondered. The language of sexual violence prevention largely revolves around what we can teach girls about staying safe. Some protocols to prevent sexual assault in schools and on college campuses have involved educating only women, too. Isn’t this kind of ridiculous? Aren’t the people best positioned to prevent sexual assaults the people who usually commit sexual assaults in the first place?

This is plainly bullshit! Many, if not most, anti-sexual abuse programs are about teaching men about not being rapists.

jeff_the_nurse · 2018-10-14T16:47:48+00:00

How to Raise Black Sons Who Don’t Steal.

How well would THAT article go over?

TruthGetsBanned · 2018-10-14T18:25:09+00:00

"How to Raise Daughters Who Aren't Gold Digging False Accusers"

SqueakyPoP · 2018-10-14T19:50:48+00:00

So she equates "lewd jokes" to sexual assault. This kid is going to have some serious issues.

vegeta8300 · 2018-10-14T14:38:22+00:00

Most of the comments of the article are infuriating...

thrway_1000 · 2018-10-14T18:48:17+00:00

Archive -- https://archive.is/gyRkD

cknight18 · 2018-10-14T21:37:22+00:00

This is honestly one of my biggest issues with feminism.

Everyone knows rape and sexual assault are bad. No rapist thinks to him/her self "hmm, I was going to rape somebody today, but I saw a sign that said don't rape so I guess it's bad."

Sure, some issues have relevance: teach people about boundaries. Teach people that even when you're in a romantic relationship with someone, that does not entitle you to their bodies.

But what I don't get is why the message had to be gendered. Gendering it enforces the stereotypes feminism is supposedly trying to break down. Surprise surprise, men can be victims and women can be perpetrators, too.

K-Dave · 2018-10-14T13:12:43+00:00

I refuse to feel offened by this. The gender war makes me sometimes angry, but at the end is driven und used by "divide and conquer" strategists, while a lot of people aren't aware of the bigger picture or even questioning what's behind all those filterbubbles and realizing to where it might lead us.

2018-10-15T18:35:54+00:00

I'd still like to see an article on what parenting decisions would have prevented either of the women who sexually assaulted me from doing so.

Still waiting on that thinkpiece.

Any day now...

Pahka1947 · 2018-10-14T19:30:05+00:00

Bitch has got her scissors sharp and ready to create a "better male."

boringcarpets · 2018-10-14T21:19:57+00:00

Answer: the same way we've been doing, because sexual assault is so fucking rare, less than 1% of the population

rsaralaya · 2018-10-14T14:26:20+00:00

An other option: r/childfree

Title	How to Raise Sons Who Don’t Sexually Assault
Author	iainmf
Upvotes	45
Comments	21
Date	October 14, 2018 11:38 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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