What do you do when women intentionally wait hours before writing something back?

Guh99 · 2013-12-17T14:32:35+00:00

Write multiple girls

Gfresh404 · 2013-12-17T14:04:00+00:00

Wait days.

RPsixthree · 2013-12-17T14:52:11+00:00

Realise there's more important things in life than women.

cyber_rigger · 2013-12-17T14:36:17+00:00

Have a life during that spare time?

SpinalArt · 2013-12-17T13:57:29+00:00

Ignore her for hours after she responds back. You're either being too clingy or she's being disrespectful, depends on the state of this relationship.

NeedRPadvice · 2013-12-17T15:03:16+00:00

Live my life

[deleted] · 2013-12-17T22:28:13+00:00

Thank fucking god for this post. I've been killing myself trying to navigate how to keep 10+ "plates spinning" and just recently realized that I need to cut a couple loose. They take hours or days to respond and just aren't respectful of my time. I only send one message and wait and if they dont get back to me within 2 hours (enough time to get out of a movie or go on lunch break or whatever) I pretend like I never sent the damn thing to begin with. I just cut 2 women loose this weekend because they were playing this game with me. After texting them that I was done waiting on them both of them IMMEDIATELY messaged me back (one of them seemed furious) saying things like "that's not fair" or "I'm not ignoring you," "it's not a big deal" etc. I simply replied that I wasn't going to put in all the effort and be treated like I wasn't important. That I wasnt gonna block their numbers or anything but I was done making the effort. It's frustrating cuz they were both great lays and one of them was arm candy like I've never had before. But I don't regret it at all. I'm way more set up in life and they can easily be replaced.

Like everyone else already said, this is like a supply and demand chain. Your time is the supply. If they're not demanding it then find someone who does.

[deleted] · 2013-12-17T19:48:50+00:00

What to do? get on with your day, if you folow RP you should be busy as fuck.

If you're asking why she does this there are multiple answers with many variables.

Other people here might tell you she's doing it because you are clingy. But that's mostly bullshit. If you're actually clingy she will stop writing altogether.

Other might tell you that people sometimes take a long time to answer because of busy lives. True to some extent. But you've seen it yourself, people are always with their phones nowadays, everywhere. And if you exchanged like 4 text in a 10 minute span and then she goes cold on you for like 3 hours afterward, she's doing it on purpose.

The amount of time it takes her to respond is a good indicator of your value in her eyes. This value is subjective and relative. Meaning that if she sees you as high value she will answer as soon as she can (sometimes they spend a while to come back at you with something witty). Why does she answer back fast ? because if she wants you she will not risk ruining her chances with you (by doing something disrespectful).

The longer she waits the lower your value is in her eyes, or low in relation to her other prospects. If there's a boyfriend in the picture, or other contenders, and you're not the highest in the list, the risk of her losing out is lower because of she has many choices (female equivalent of abundance mentality). Women will have no problem flakeing on number 3,4 or 5 in her prospects roster.

Number 1 will never have to wonder if she's into him. If the covert signals fail she will overtly (meaning - in a obvious way) show interest.

Every game aware RP dude benefits from figuring out where he's at on the rosters of the women he's interested in. This way you know which ones should be nexted and which are worth pursuing. Also why I endorse passive game (actual value) so much. Gaming your way from nr 4 to nr 1 can be time consuming and maybe not worthwhile in the end. Having high value bumps you up to the podium automatically. And in this society of optimized hypergamy (social networks and smartphones) the pool of prospects in pretty fucking big even for plain janes (thank the bluepillers for this).

Rollo explains it better : http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/

dub121686 · 2013-12-17T18:33:05+00:00

Never wait on a response. You've got better things to do, and she should know it. She is just another option for you. Make that clear, Im sure someone has written this exact manifesto but I didn't read any comments before I gave my suggestion

bsutansalt · 2013-12-17T23:16:13+00:00

Spin more plates. You'll know you're doing it right when you catch yourself about to text something to the wrong one.

IllimitableMan · 2013-12-18T02:16:43+00:00

I next the fuck out of the bitch. My time is valuable. I don't have the patience for the "waiting game."

I can demonstrate patience in a long-term endeavour, but I truly don't value pussy enough to put my own patience to that kind of mettle.

Someone beneath said "wait days" if you have the patience for it and for whatever reason value the girl that much then it's good advice.

I actually use the waiting game method on associates who are assholes and play power games. Except instead of replying days later, I wait for them to message me again.

[deleted] · 2013-12-17T15:30:54+00:00

I do the same, so how can I judge?

ar10308 · 2013-12-17T17:11:27+00:00

Whatever the time between your last text to her and hera to you, double it before you respond.

[deleted] · 2013-12-17T19:13:42+00:00

Uuuuhhhh get off the phone and read, eat meat, hang out with friends, be a man who doesn't give a shit when some girl is going to finally text back? Who cares, you're awesome.

Clauderoughly · 2013-12-17T19:16:40+00:00

Something or someone else.

Don't play their stupid game.

[deleted] · 2013-12-17T22:46:52+00:00

I generally just have stuff to do anyway.

worms_to_mooch_sex · 2013-12-18T02:42:07+00:00

Make your life easy and block her for a day or two. Claim you had phone problems. Like training a dog.

EVILEMU · 2013-12-18T15:52:54+00:00

They're busy, you should be too.

DickTheLionheart · 2013-12-18T17:11:56+00:00

Do it right back to them. You want to be in a position where you are the prize, they are unsure of your attraction to them because you're not too available to them, and when you find time to text them, they are eager to text back quickly.

What I like about the Red Pill approach, as opposed to merely learning PUA tactics which can strike the uninitiated as learning tricks to manipulate based on women's desires, is that it is so organic - men are the leaders, men make the choice. The PUA tactics, pushing and pulling, negging, ignoring, making them jealous, etc., flow from that abstract idea - that man has self-confidence and self-respect, and is choosing a woman who meets his standards.

Be the man the woman goes crazy about, wondering if you like them or not, and if/when you're going to respond to them.

[deleted] · 2013-12-20T05:20:31+00:00

Fuck her sister of course.

choice_for_men · 2013-12-18T02:21:58+00:00

I fap continously until my dick bleeds, thinking ONLY about the girl I wrote, and I obsess over how terrible my life is going to be FOREVER if she doesn't write me back at MY earliest convenience.

FemtoG · 2013-12-17T19:14:38+00:00

You finding yourself waiting for her response is a sign that you SUCK

Title	What do you do when women intentionally wait hours before writing something back?
Author	hydrax
Upvotes	9
Comments	38
Date	December 17, 2013 1:46 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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