ONS got pregnant

TattedGuyser · 2017-05-07T08:58:40+00:00

About a month ago, I had an ONS with a girl I met off Tinder.

I asked her if she had had sex with anyone else, and she said no

Lol.

What are the chances of somebody getting pregnant while menstruating heavily?

Possible, a little rare but it can line up.

I've done this many times before

Dumbass.

bberen1 · 2017-05-07T06:16:28+00:00

con·dom

noun

A condom is a thin covering worn on the penis during sex to prevent pregnancy. Condoms are the only method of birth control that prevents sexually transmitted infections. They're widely available with or without latex and spermicides.

Pay for the abortion and wrap your Willy next time.

nijns · 2017-05-07T12:46:15+00:00

get a dna test, dummy.

dr_warlock · 2017-05-07T13:44:52+00:00

Lookup 'hail mary tom leykis' on youtube.

Your 'guilt' will dissipate shortly. Child support is 18-26 years.

Good luck.

casemodsalt · 2017-05-07T08:00:39+00:00

Anything is possible but unless she has your address or knows your name, I would cut contact.

At the very least she wants half or full abortion money out of you.

Did you ask if she was on birth control?

Whatever happens, don't give her money. Give the store or office the cash for whatever is needed. Be present at all times if possible.

I might even be suspicious of the female staff holding the money for her to retrieve at a later time.

Possibly bad advice: pretend to want a kid but any sign of decent income or mental stability will probably not discourage her from deciding against having one.

Honestly the only reason I can see her even contacting you after 1 month is to get money out of you.

How old is she? Does she need you to hold her hand while she applies for a job too? Lol... pathetic if you ask me.

Anyways ask planned parenthood about trimesters and all that first. See what your options are...from the experts.

cji25 · 2017-05-07T08:32:40+00:00

Sounds like bullshit. Get proof, if you can.

Pay for the abortion first hand if you have to.

Tell her you care about it all, be there, and measure everything. Once the abortion is done, ghost.

RedPimpin · 2017-05-07T10:18:34+00:00

tell her 'that's funny because i didn't tell you but i can't have kids'

also you're an idiot and i shouldn't even help your dumb ass, but you're in luck cuz im too chill right now

intradasting350 · 2017-05-07T17:24:22+00:00

lmao at the guys saying it's BS

Reality check: You came inside her.

When you ejaculate inside a girl, there's a high chance you're going to knock her up regardless of where she was on her cycle.

SexistFlyingPig · 2017-05-07T15:21:17+00:00

She wants money from you. Admit nothing and ghost. Seriously.

I know a guy who had a ONS and then got the "I'm pregnant, it's yours" call. The only problem? He's had a vasectomy.

beginner_ · 2017-05-07T16:06:14+00:00

It's possible if she has a short cycle. But even then you should wear a condom even if you got a vasectomy. I mean seriously ever heard of HIV, hepatitis, Syphilis and so forth?

Different plans now are possible:

Ghost her immediately.

Depends on where you live and chances she can figure out who you are. If yes, this is not a good option. If no it probably is a good option. Only downside is if she actually is pregnant and has the kid and it's yours, the state will come and get your money (phone number...). And since you ghosted her you can't manipulate her to get an abortion. this is simple and easy downside is lack of peace of mind. At anytime the state could come and claim your money and demand you pay child support. This could be in 1 year or 10 years.

Meet her and tell her your infertile

A few weeks-months back there was this TRP post of a dude having lied to multiple chicks about being infertile and all of them said "Oh well maybe it was this other guy after all". One thing is for sure, a girl that let's you fuck her raw on a ONS has done it before and after you multiple times.

However this only works if you are a tough and cold son of a bitch, charming and a good story teller. Why are you infertile? for a vasectomy you should have documents, why aren't you showing them? it's tough road. You need to be consistent and persuasive. But it's also efficient and you can have peace of mind because one of the other dudes will cave.

Play nice, manipulate her into abortion

For sure not easy. Never tell you want an abortion. In fact do the opposite. Act enthusiastic, plan a future (happily ever after, it will make her feel sick). Along the fantasizing plant some road blocks about how hard it will be, how broke you are, how cheaply you will have to live and eat. And no car, as gas is too expensive these days. But it's totally worth it! (eg. paint yourself as a loser with no bucks). And then hope she will bring the abortion up herself or outright tell you she was wrong and it's from another dude.

DirtyProject0r · 2017-05-07T16:58:45+00:00

She was menstruating very heavily but we decided to have sex anyways, and I ended up ejaculating inside her.

me

mattizie · 2017-05-07T13:14:27+00:00

Get proof, piss stick or equivalent.

Get her to abort and go with for "moral support" to make sure she does it. If she won't do it immediatly, take matters into your own hands. If it was me (and she wasn't going to abort) I'd be inviting her over for dinner to sort it out "now that we're going to be parents and all", and lace her food with strong drugs that will 100% trigger a miscarriage. Sue me.

Other option is 18 years of child support. What would you do for 250k minimum (assuming no other expenses)

This is what you get for being an idiot.

iwakebord2 · 2017-05-07T14:56:55+00:00

Be happy you didn't get herpes or aids....you met a bleeding Tinder whore and raw dawged her smothering your dick in a rando's blood. Are you stupid? Or do you just subconsciously want to ruin your life.

SY it with me now Con-dom Con-dom Con-dom Con-dom Con-dom Con-dom

VickVaseline · 2017-05-07T16:50:26+00:00

The chances of a girl getting pregnant while menstruating heavily are extremely remote. Tell her you got a disease when you were a kid that left you sterile and you can't get a girl pregnant. If she lawyers-up, insist on a paternity test.

If you do turn out to be the father, do everything you can for the tyke. Kids need their fathers.

throwitdownman · 2017-05-07T16:53:02+00:00

Listen to me: it's VERY unlikely. My experience so take it how you like.

How unlikely? If it is heavy bleeding (day 1-3) its around 0%-0.7% for a normal 28 day cycle.

Day 8 of a normal cycle (light faint bleeding, 4/10 serious level) is 1.2%. Risk of pregnancy is high when it's >3%. Doesn't sound like your ONS is that far in.

Worst case: Day 8 of a short cycle, say 20 days (which is pretty much impossible), would be around 12%.

AssMaster95 · 2017-05-07T17:18:22+00:00

Probably not yours, I would deny it. Get DNA test.

TxnyMontana · 2017-05-07T17:23:00+00:00

If she has a non-regular cycle things are tricky, but if you had sex while menstruating, it's almost impossible. Ghost her until things get serious. If she finds you, get a dna test. Hope isn't yours bro. Next time use condom for strangers.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-05-07T18:35:00+00:00

"Ok. I'm finding a clinic now"

Iguessthisismynameno · 2017-05-07T19:36:09+00:00

Whatever you do, DON'T offer to pay for the abortion via text or another traceable message service. This often is seen as you 'accepting responsibility' for the child so you'll be on the hook for child support regardless of the findings of a DNA test.

Have these discussions with her in person.

sixseven89 · 2017-05-07T23:07:18+00:00

Pretty sure you can't know after just a month.

serious_bs · 2017-05-08T12:18:02+00:00

Also read this post. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/63wmts/let_me_tell_you_about_the_time_i_got_16_free/

Title	ONS got pregnant
Author	abortion_throwaway_1
Upvotes	15
Comments	40
Date	May 7, 2017 6:02 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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