plate of mine found out i took a coworker of hers out for drinks. she intervened

Docbear64 · 2017-05-17T16:33:12+00:00

Let her dangle ( new one) . She's trying to get you to apologize so instead forget her for a few days . She'll probably message you asking how you are after a few and then you can pick up right where you left off.

Your old FWB probably won't care, oyu say she called you out but what exactly did she say ? IF she just mentioned she's aware you're hanging with other chicks then no worries if she is trying to play the guilt card too again soft next.

The goal is to embarass you , don't be embarrassed they both want you just wait it out and let their female brains start to hamster why it's not a big deal that you're seeing their coworker away from what they said.

[deleted] · 2017-05-17T16:29:42+00:00

She isn't your girlfriend, so what does it matter? If your FWB gets mad about it or asks you about it, tell her you're not exclusive so she doesn't have a right to be upset with you. The other girl is probably a lost cause but you might be surprised... she could pursue you more now that she knows you're with another woman.

jb_trp · 2017-05-17T16:26:09+00:00

Soft next. Don't respond to any drama or dumb texts. You don't have to justify anything you do to a FWB. Find more plates. Only spend time with either of them when they want to come over to your place for sex.

epicness · 2017-05-17T17:39:53+00:00

FWB =/= LTR

AdventureToRedPill · 2017-05-17T22:39:48+00:00

I think the best way to handle this is just, show up with a BIG SMILE on your face, show your coworker that you're having a good time. No matter what she say just nod agree and do what the fuck you have to do. And to the girl that your went out fuck that just keep spinning, maybe use one of the 48 laws of power? Use bait make your enemy come to you.

[deleted] · 2017-05-17T23:44:26+00:00

Soft Next plate since what you do outside your relationship is not her business
Approach coworker since she's giving you a shit test and is clearly DTF

LordThunderbolt · 2017-05-17T16:38:40+00:00

"Yeah she's not my gf. Drinks later tonight, my place 9pm (Line break and insert your address)"

IVIaskerade · 2017-05-17T17:34:48+00:00

Why is your fuck buddy calling you out" in the first place?

Willow-girl · 2017-05-18T12:18:59+00:00

Time for a THREESOME! :-D

Bongoringo144 · 2017-05-17T17:01:16+00:00

Set your FwB in line. At this point it's you confront and tell her that shit is not cool and out of line, or you promote her, or you hard next.

She needs to know that behavior is not cool if she is still wanting to sleep with you.

As far as her coworker that shit is already fucked. No use trying, see if she'll reach out to you.

Title	plate of mine found out i took a coworker of hers out for drinks. she intervened
Author	penguin_or_panda
Upvotes	11
Comments	26
Date	May 17, 2017 4:08 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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