Many women's sense of entitlement is so great that they feel they shouldn't contribute anything to a relationship, and that the man should do everything.
You're right, it is a shitty thing to do. But generalizations exist for a reason, because its an accurate assessment for a majority. Else, we would never be able to say anything about anything due to there being exceptions for almost everything.
A) I don't think saying 'Women are emotional first, logical second' is an accurate generalization, and I fail to see any evidence to believe it is.
B) You don't have to make generalizations like that. Yes, some things do apply to a certain group of people, but not all of them. For example, women are less physically strong than men on average. There are women who are stronger than most men, so we say 'On average, women are physically weaker than men'. You can still make statements about groups, as long as you acknowledge there are exceptions.
If you acknowledge every exception with each statement, it undermines your conviction. Its not right, but I've noticed that people don't listen if you always follow up a statement with "except for" or "usually."
I don't think that's a bad thing. You shouldn't be confident in the statement that all women are governed by emotion before logic, because it's not true.
Also, you are entitled to your opinion that women do not act emotionally before logic. But my opinion differs due to my everyday experience, and modern feminism.
I do not believe that women do not act emotionally before resorting to logic. I haven't formed an opinion on women as a group because I haven't met enough women to make a concrete statement on how all 3.5 billion of them act. Your everyday experience is small, anecdotal, potentially biased and not statistically significant. I have no problem with you saying "In my experience, women tend to act emotionally before using logic", that's fine, but saying that all women do is just false.
It's like a feminist who's dated a lot of douchbags in her time saying "All men are assholes". It's an incorrect generalization based on the personal experience of one woman interacting with a very small subset of the male population.
Dude, that's a terrible plan. If you have facts, use them. Don't resort to the shit they do. You will never convince a hardcore feminist. The point of arguing with them is not to get them to concede the point, it's to make other, more moderate people who see your exchange go "Hey, that anti feminist guy has a good point, I'm going to consider changing my perspective." You're not going to do that with flawed anecdotes and arguments.
Furthermore, this isn't a war. You shouldn't be looking at this from the perspective of defeating feminists, but from the perspective of finding out the truth. Look at the evidence, come to a conclusion, then explain your reasoning to others. If they're reasonable, they'll follow suit. If not, you'll never convince them, so move on.
Also, I'm not a feminist. If you have evidence to prove that women tend to put emotion above logic, show it to me, and I will consider it in good faith. Don't use their tactics against me for no reason.
... That's a procedure, not an organisation. That'd be like me saying "Lobotomy called, they want you back". It makes no sense. Did you mean "The SRS clinic called, they want you back"?
I know what sex reassignment surgery IS, I think the implication is that I had sex reassignment surgery and am therefore weak, I just don't understand how the sentence "Sex reassignment surgery called, they want you back" makes grammatical sense. So, I'm asking if SRS stands for something else that I don't know about.
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Fuck off. Making sweeping generalizations about an entire sex is a stupid, shitty, legitimately sexist thing to do.
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You're right, it is a shitty thing to do. But generalizations exist for a reason, because its an accurate assessment for a majority. Else, we would never be able to say anything about anything due to there being exceptions for almost everything.
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A) I don't think saying 'Women are emotional first, logical second' is an accurate generalization, and I fail to see any evidence to believe it is.
B) You don't have to make generalizations like that. Yes, some things do apply to a certain group of people, but not all of them. For example, women are less physically strong than men on average. There are women who are stronger than most men, so we say 'On average, women are physically weaker than men'. You can still make statements about groups, as long as you acknowledge there are exceptions.
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I don't think that's a bad thing. You shouldn't be confident in the statement that all women are governed by emotion before logic, because it's not true.
I do not believe that women do not act emotionally before resorting to logic. I haven't formed an opinion on women as a group because I haven't met enough women to make a concrete statement on how all 3.5 billion of them act. Your everyday experience is small, anecdotal, potentially biased and not statistically significant. I have no problem with you saying "In my experience, women tend to act emotionally before using logic", that's fine, but saying that all women do is just false.
It's like a feminist who's dated a lot of douchbags in her time saying "All men are assholes". It's an incorrect generalization based on the personal experience of one woman interacting with a very small subset of the male population.
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DON'T STOOP TO THEIR LEVEL!
Dude, that's a terrible plan. If you have facts, use them. Don't resort to the shit they do. You will never convince a hardcore feminist. The point of arguing with them is not to get them to concede the point, it's to make other, more moderate people who see your exchange go "Hey, that anti feminist guy has a good point, I'm going to consider changing my perspective." You're not going to do that with flawed anecdotes and arguments.
Furthermore, this isn't a war. You shouldn't be looking at this from the perspective of defeating feminists, but from the perspective of finding out the truth. Look at the evidence, come to a conclusion, then explain your reasoning to others. If they're reasonable, they'll follow suit. If not, you'll never convince them, so move on.
Also, I'm not a feminist. If you have evidence to prove that women tend to put emotion above logic, show it to me, and I will consider it in good faith. Don't use their tactics against me for no reason.
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SRS? As in, sex reassignment surgery?
... That's a procedure, not an organisation. That'd be like me saying "Lobotomy called, they want you back". It makes no sense. Did you mean "The SRS clinic called, they want you back"?
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I'm not feigning shit. Is SRS the name of a subreddit or something?
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I know what sex reassignment surgery IS, I think the implication is that I had sex reassignment surgery and am therefore weak, I just don't understand how the sentence "Sex reassignment surgery called, they want you back" makes grammatical sense. So, I'm asking if SRS stands for something else that I don't know about.
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That's a great subreddit, a little bit too fat people hate and the red pill for me but still hilarious
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