Why do men hate each other so much ?

TrustButtVerify · 2017-01-12T15:13:45+00:00

B/c it's a dog eat dog world, and we are not kidding anyone about it.

furchfur · 2017-01-12T17:03:36+00:00

I do not think they do bro.

TechnoSam_Belpois · 2017-01-12T20:56:17+00:00

I don't think men have anything against other men, they just have nothing for them. Most men have a default preference for women. If that means they unintentionally screw over a lot of men in the process, they don't really care.

It's worth noting the recent study that determined men are better at making up with each other than women are. So I think personal groups of men take care of each other better than groups of women, but once it's impersonal (ie government) this goes away.

Thy_Lord_Castiel · 2017-01-12T15:00:51+00:00

Underneath the human brain is an animal. Under the Animal is the lizard.

The lizard tells us .....eat....drink....fuck.

We want the women. It's a silly thing but our human mind is finally evolving to control that part. Yet we fight for the best females.

The animal in us wants to lead the pack and be the leader. Gorillas have a natural leader. We want to be that. We fight for that spot in our social structures.

The human mind has philosophical, moral, and religious differences. That is why we argue and debate.

My friend summed it best: with men their is always competition. But when something good happens, we are happy for them. Unlike women, who get jealous, we applaud them. Because at its base level, if all your friends Are powerful and successful, smart and good looking, you must be too to be part of that "pack".

That's a very simple way of explaining the human mind

waveformcollapse · 2017-01-12T17:35:27+00:00

Men tend to suffer from misandrist Communist indoctrination by bitter single moms at home and psychotic female teachers at state-funded schools.

SaiHottari · 2017-01-12T22:31:14+00:00

On an individual level, men are actually closer bonded and more empathetic than women. This is why all-female businesses are so often doomed to failure from infighting. Psychologists have long noted men tend to be better at settling differences as well. Have you ever hated a guy so much you brawled with him, only to find yourself not hating him anymore?

The actions against men by other men tend to be when it is impersonal. A senator in his desk has far less empathy for you on the ground than the man next to you. This isn't made any better by the way government and leadership tends to be structured, where your job depends on appeasing masses, masses that have a preference for the well-being of women.

equiposeur · 2017-01-12T15:56:14+00:00

The world presents men with a winner-take-all deal, with most of the goodies going to a very few apex men. Most men live in scarcity, which makes it hard to have integrity.

Think of how often you hear men say, "Most guys are assholes . . . (but not me)." They think they are just selling out their brothers, but really they are also selling out themselves. Sad.

Liv47 · 2017-01-12T20:11:26+00:00

Men are inherently competitive. The need to be dominant is what compels most men to pursue women, gather resources (which in the present day means a job and a credit card and a car etc.), and generally be desirable to potential mates.

This will always cause conflict with other men seeking dominance, especially when they are competing for the same resources or trying to court the same mate.

Greg_W_Allan · 2017-01-12T22:19:39+00:00

I began to make a conscious effort to unlearn my own hatred of men back in the late nineties. It was not at all healthy.

ThePigmanAgain · 2017-01-12T22:57:40+00:00

I think you have confused men with White Knights.

TheSummerain · 2017-01-12T23:33:27+00:00

We are jerks.

Sometimes acting against other men's interest is in my interest. Especially when there is a woman. power, influence, etc are involved.

Usually comes down to what is best for ME?

rg57 · 2017-01-12T23:33:41+00:00

Some men think they can advance their own image and relationship chances by adopting a strong individualistic and feminist stance, so they can be seen as the one "good" man.

StuckInTheNothingnes · 2017-01-13T05:05:05+00:00

it is called the male self loathing . men hate themselves because they are seen as a human doing .

Ascendant-Dickwaffle · 2017-01-13T06:11:24+00:00

It wasn't always this way. or at least not as severe, especially for men in the "in group" (you even see so called MRAs and anti feminists waffle on about muslim men and how badly they treat their women). Our society doesn't tap into men's cooperative nature well enough and it pits us against each other. In the very homophobic victorian days it was customary for men to touch each other and even share beds.

Revorob · 2017-01-13T09:12:29+00:00

I don't think men do hate each other. Yes, it is true to say not all men get along with all other men but to say each man basically hates every other man is a falsehood. If you don't believe me, pay attention the next male group discussion you are in. What you will notice is that whilst give each other shit, this is done in humour and generally without malice. Basically, men in a group tend to show their appreciation for one another. Then go listen to a group of women talking and you will hear bitching, snide comments and generally each woman trying to take every other woman down.

Men don't hate each other but women certainly do.

BobMcGeorge · 2017-01-13T16:37:53+00:00

Because you can't get the pusi from other dudes.

bookishboy · 2017-01-13T17:40:46+00:00

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=men+and+women+in-group+vs+out-group+preference

Title	Why do men hate each other so much ?
Author	grapesaregreat
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Date	January 12, 2017 2:53 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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