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Ontario, Tuesday. Now legal for men to absolve themselves from parental role prior to impregnating a woman by signing a pre-sex waiver. Bill 28 "All Families are Equal Act", passed today, makes this legal as of Jan 1, 2017.

Machnow

November 30, 2016
198 upvotes
/r/MensRights
http://www.torontosun.com/2016/10/31/sperm-banks-not-needed-in-kathleen-wynnes-ontario
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Title Ontario, Tuesday. Now legal for men to absolve themselves from parental role prior to impregnating a woman by signing a pre-sex waiver. Bill 28 "All Families are Equal Act", passed today, makes this legal as of Jan 1, 2017.
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Machnow

Upvotes 198
Comments 51
Date November 30, 2016 5:09 AM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
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Comments

[–]Rasalom72 39 points40 points41 points 9 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Have a pad of these made up and sitting on your night stand.

The only problem would be getting it to stand up in court once the women claims she was too intoxicated to enter into a binding contract.

[–]Machnow[S] 23 points24 points25 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

oh..dude...this is going to turn into a shitstorm in a very short while. the lawsuits will be flying eventually.

but this part is just a tiny, tiny part of this giant new law. It quite literally re-writes Family Law in Ontario in fundamental ways.

It's really quite incredible..and scary...and sadly not suprising.

[–]Rasalom72 15 points16 points17 points 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Well, at least it's a step towards actual equality... and if that means that "family" doesn't exist anymore legally, then so be it.

[–]Machnow[S] 9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

agreed, wholeheartedly. It's incredible...still shaking my head a bit believing this is actually law here. the bill is really fubar as it stands...but through court decisions, etc...it could become a very good thing

[–]Rasalom72 12 points13 points14 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Yup.. but we need to see it in action. Will drunken signatures the night before (or sober ones for that matter) in the heat of the moment be upheld in court?

Will the courts hold a woman accountable for her actions (did you sign this absolving him of financial responsibility or not)? The real test will be played out when the first cases go to court. And would you need it in writing? Would an oral agreement work? How about an app?

[–]feedmecarrots 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is one thing to put it into law and another to see it in practice. Knowing family court judges, they may find a way to toss it out.

[–]Mikeavelli 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, the intended effect here seems more like a "you had an opportunity to get a waiver signed, and intentionally failed to do so. Now stop complaining." Measure, rather than a measure that's actually supposed to help.

[–]Celda 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, the intended effect here seems more like a "you had an opportunity to get a waiver signed, and intentionally failed to do so. Now stop complaining." Measure

As opposed to the status quo, where literally nothing can help (even if you're raped you have to pay)? So this is better than the status quo.

[–]Mikeavelli 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm comparing it to the Putative Father Registry scheme set up in some states. At the surface, it sounds like a move to protect the rights of fathers (register and the state is forced to warn you about any prospective adoption proceedings!). In practice; the existence of the registry isn't advertised, the time limits are unreasonably short, and the whole scheme is used as a way to blame fathers for not properly following the law instead of accepting that the burden of tracking down putative fathers and getting their consent for adoption is on the state.

Basically, it exists to expedite adoptions by forcing fathers out of the picture.

This law comes off the same way. Maybe I'm just paranoid though, since I can't pin down exactly what ulterior motive might exist here.

[–]Celda 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well the putative father registry is obviously anti-male.

Just imagine if women had to fill out a form (which many women didn't know about because it's not publicized), and if they failed to do so, the father could adopt out the child against her will.

And then the government tells her "well you didn't fill out the form, so what did you expect"?

Clearly that's anti-male. Fathers are better off without the putative father registry, since having it makes it worse for them. (Without the registry, governments couldn't justify unilateral adoption with the BS excuse of not filling out a form that the man didn't even know about).

But, please explain how this new law makes things worse for men than it already is?

[–]Mikeavelli 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dunno, I think I might just be paranoid.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Have a pad of these made up and sitting on your night stand.

Someone should be taking donations to pre-print pads of these to hand out to college students and men in front of health centers.

[–]clybourn 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A pad with consent forms, carbon paper, this form. The have it sealed by you on scene notary public/videographer.

[–]cld8 29 points30 points31 points 9 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

This is a step in the right direction, but why does it have to be before sex? Why not after sex but before birth, which is the time in which the woman has the right to get an abortion?

[+][deleted] 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Eidolon3436 9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

That's okay...cause they matter less than nothing to us.

I checked my male privilege (at their request of course). I checked it. Its functioning correctly. Clean. Oiled. Well maintained. Exercised regularly. Its power increases as it should. It serves no female not my blood kin.

"Check". I dont think that word only means what you think it means.

If I cannot pass my male privilege to my male children then I will opt out.

By celibacy, abstinence, condoms, sterilization ..whatever is required to prevent the pregnancy. Other legal methods of preventing my genes from enriching a feminists life is surely welcome. Lets see how this plays out.

[–]jimmywiddle 11 points12 points13 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I was thinking the same thing. At least guys will have slightly more rights with this.

[–]xNOM 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because "men shouldn't fuck unless they want children." /s

Pussy must be paid for. Always. No exceptions.

[–]AnotherDAM 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Disclaimer IANAL and I have not yet read the proposed law; however,

The article purports to quote the act “this section is deemed not to apply to a person ..., before the child is conceived, ...” And therein lies the magic sauce. Get her to sign it soon after the sex act; perhaps in the morning over breakfast ("your honor, he would not give me the delicious smelling eggs benny until I signed" is hardly coercion). You will have a series of acts to demonstrate her state of mind and to the best of my knowledge "conception" in the English Common Law derived world requires viability which requires implantation which necessarily is some significant amount of time after the completion of intercourse.

and now for a cup of coffee sans creamer.

[–]NeuroticIntrovert 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

The bill isn't perfect, but it's a step in the right direction.

Why presume consent to parenthood at all?

[–]cld8 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I guess that if a man doesn't say otherwise, the woman can assume that he wants to be a parent. Otherwise, you'd have to have an affirmative consent rule where he has to agree to be a parent, which would cause other issues.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

which would cause other issues.

Such as?

[–]cld8 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Kids without a source of support.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

An unconditional basic income can help deal with this problem, no?

[–]cld8 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, perhaps.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

OK; good.

[–]polakfury 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That way its not the messed up papers by the night stand route

[+][deleted] 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]cld8 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's a fair point. My idea was that both the man and the woman should have the same amount of time to absolve responsibility.

[–]talones -5 points-4 points-3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

As an American independent who is a firm believer in abortion rights this thinking is so logical that it scares the fuck out of me because it can soon be a felony to get an abortion here.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

just stop it. it is not nor will it be a felony. stop pushing the hate trump BS. just head over to r/politics to get your fix. trump stated that he is appointing a pro-life judge. in no way has roe vs wade been overturned. he also stated that he would leave it up to the states to determine how they wanted to handle abortion.

[–]AnotherDAM 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

To pile onto your great comment -

The number of times that the US Supreme court has reversed itself (in the sense that the Court is an enduring entity and not something new with each change of justice) is so FEW that it is an incredibly short read and should give anyone a sense of when the Court is likely to repeat something of such historic importance.

Take a Wiki-break and alleviate your fears, wikilink

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Does this matter when it can be repealed 10 years down the line, then applied retroactively? I still wouldn't feel safe at all.

[–]AnotherDAM 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Personally I am much more concerned that this is a Trojan-Horse (dear god, did I just write that?) - now not only is there her word against his there is actually a physical piece of paper with his signature on it admitting to the act.

Thinking about it - it really makes little legal sense to require his signature unless you are afraid at some point in the future he will want to enforce his parental rights. It is her signature which forms the basis of the release of obligation.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed.

[–]marauderp 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

now not only is there her word against his there is actually a physical piece of paper with his signature on it admitting to the act.

Not at all. There's the piece of paper. Either it exists or it doesn't.

Now obviously the piece of paper can be forged, lost, destroyed, etc. but those are all a separate issue from the fact that this does give someone an actual, verifiable, physical piece of evidence. It's the exact opposite of just taking someone's word for it.

[–]AnotherDAM 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yea, thanks for repeating what I said.

[–]Lethn 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's certainly an issue, but this will at least make people think about it more so it is big news.

[–]JackGetsIt 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a small step in the right direction. I'd like to see some more legislation in this same realm.

  1. Right for a men within marriage to not have women abort their offspring.

  2. Right for men to opt out of financial obligations if the women refuses to abort after insemination (out of wedlock).

  3. Right for men to adjust alimony payments if income status changes. (RIP Dave Foley).

  4. Elimination of Excessive alimony and childcare. Just because she married a wealthy man doesn't mean if she divorces him she's entitled to a 10k food budget every month after divorce. Wealthy and semi wealthy men should only have to pay a respectable pay out that is reasonable to raise the children to age 18.

  5. In general marriages need to be eliminated or treated a lot more like individual specific contracts.

[–]rg57 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a good step, but nowhere near enough.

Women do not have to decide before sex whether they want to be a mother. Men shouldn't have to decide whether to be a father at that time either.

Bill 28 should be called the "Men Are Still Lesser Act".

What does it say about sperm theft?

And what does it say about women who cheat on their husbands?

[–]jimmywiddle 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sounds awesome to me. Finally some equality for men in this regard. I would like others have said have a stack of these pre-made, pre-signed and good to go.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

If I was a single man in Ontario, you bet I'd have a whole bloody stack of these haha.

[–]Celda 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A committee at Queen’s Park will continute its review of the bill on Tuesday with a view to having it voted on later this week.

That's what the article says. Did it actually vote and get passed?

[–]TheRavenousRabbit 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is absolutely huge.

[–]McFeely_Smackup 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A friend of mine told me as a homosexual man, he has been “assisting some of my lesbian friends” in having children by “donating my sperm to them”

your friend is an idiot.

[–]CanadianHerbivoreMan 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm truly sorry to have to burst the bubble here, but what you guys are jumping for joy about is not what is written in this Act/amendment. You can read it here (http://www.ontla.on.ca/web/bills/bills_detail.do?locale=en&Intranet=&BillID=4176) but here is the relevant part: "7. (4) This section is deemed not to apply to a person whose sperm is used to conceive a child through sexual intercourse if, before the child is conceived, the person and the intended birth parent agree in writing that the person does not intend to be a parent of the child.". Section 7 determines whether or not the biological father is legally considered a parent. The key word is "intended". It seemed vague to me so I thought there was a chance that it meant what you guys thought, but the explanatory note at the bottom of the Act shows what is meant. Here it is: "4. If a child is conceived through sexual intercourse, the person whose sperm resulted in the conception is also a parent of the child. Rebuttable presumptions are set out respecting how that person may be determined. An exception is made in the case where two persons engage in sexual intercourse for the purpose of conceiving a child, but agree in advance in writing that the person providing the sperm does not intend to be a parent of the child (insemination by a sperm donor). (Section 7)". So as you can see, a written agreement means nothing unless sex is had "for the purpose of conceiving a child". Ironically, if you want to have sex but don't want responsibility for a child, you have to have sex with the intention of getting her pregnant. Again, sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but did you really believe these people would take the noose off our neck's?

[–]Machnow[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i see what you're saying. but you're re-inforcing the point: "An exception is made in the case where two persons engage in sexual intercourse for the purpose of conceiving a child, but agree in advance in writing that the person providing the sperm does not intend to be a parent of the child (insemination by a sperm donor)." you see, the written agreement covers both aspects of the defense on non-parenthood, the intent and the result. why would anyone sign the agreement if in fact their was an intent for the father to assume parenthood?

you agree?

[–]thrway_1000 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://archive.is/Nd70y

[–]Lethn 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is great news, one thing I immediately spotted scanning this article though as is typical of these types of news sites.

A good deal for some men to absolve themselves of any responsibilty? A bad deal for future children who may never know whose DNA helped create them?

This is all about protecting men from blackmailing mothers who will try to claim child support from them after finding out who they are and other fraudulent tactics. This has no bearing on the child, I expect there would be ways still they could at least find out who their fathers are and it's only the women involved in this who will be stopped from having any influence and that is 100% a good thing.

I'm extremely surprised to see Canada of all places being at the forefront of this sort of thing though, would never have expected it, women should never be able to blackmail men with pregnancy.

[–]contractor808 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The DNA argument is only relevant if that same argument applies to default paternity testing.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is excellent. Single men in Ontario, prepare your printers and start carrying pens around haha.

Another thing this could be good for, is preventing false rape accusations, since if the woman signed, clearly she consented as well.

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