Apparently, it's immature for a guy to refuse sex with a woman

HeForeverBleeds · 2016-08-15T11:55:06+00:00

The thing that bothers me in this case is the double standard. Here this woman is basically saying "women like sex on their periods, and if a man doesn't like it he needs to get over it and do it for her anyways; otherwise he shouldn't be having sex."

But how would this sound if a guy were to say something like:

"Come on now! Men tend to like it when a girl lets him cum in her mouth. So if you're giving your guy a blow job, just get it over with and let him cum in your mouth and wash your mouth out afterwards. You only have to give him a blow job every now and then, so just get it over with. If you're truly grossed out by a guy's semen, then you're probably not ready to be having sex. You need to grow up"

Don't feminists teach that no means no and that a person can refuse sex for any reason? If a guy told his GF to "get it over with and have sex with me" when she didn't want to, people would be calling it sexual abuse; and yet apparently a woman trying to shame her BF into having sex with her when he doesn't want to is okay and he should just do it because it feels good to her

Ultramegasaurus · 2016-08-15T12:13:54+00:00

Women feel way more entitled to sex than men and that's why it's so infuriating when they claim the opposite.

Crowned_Son_of_Fire · 2016-08-15T11:53:48+00:00

You dodge a bullet. Congratulations.

pretzelfloat · 2016-08-15T15:09:14+00:00

Author even LOOKS like she would piss me off.

2016-08-15T16:21:22+00:00

Women are entitled to sex on demand and men should feel ashamed for refusing.

corndog161 · 2016-08-15T14:03:26+00:00

If the yellow river is running red, take the dirt road home.

I think that's a fair compromise.

Lrellok · 2016-08-15T15:53:53+00:00

Yes becouse consent only applies to females, men cannot revoke consent....

Bailie2 · 2016-08-15T16:53:53+00:00

People should resect each other's boundaries. Are they going to express disappointment if turned down, probably. Seems like it's something that would work itself out

2016-08-16T03:33:08+00:00

For six months I had a coworker message me via Facebook and SMS wanting to have sex. First she wanted friends with benefits, then wanted to see me naked, then outright asking me to fuck her. Each time I refused. She hasn't pressured me in two months now, but I imagine that she would put the blame on me for refusing her.

Title	Apparently, it's immature for a guy to refuse sex with a woman
Author	HeForeverBleeds
Upvotes	38
Comments	14
Date	August 15, 2016 11:52 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/4xt6vv/apparently_its_immature_for_a_guy_to_refuse_sex/
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